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21 AMAZING FACTS ABOUT SEX

Even though we don’t like talking about the subject of sex in this part of the world, it is a very crucial aspect of marriage that cannot be over emphasized. Research shows that the opposite of the intensity of labor pain is the intensity of sexual pleasure, meaning as labor pain is believed to be the highest level of pain, so is sex is believed to be the highest level of pleasure. Just like i said last week, if you solve your sexual issues, you might as well solve about 75% of your marital issues. Sex is beautiful, its a free gift that should be enjoyed, explored and appreciated. Knowledge is power, the more knowledge we have about these things the more better we get. My program last week was surprisingly dominated by men who complained of lack or no sexual satisfaction from their wives, that was quite revealing as the general notion has always been that it is the women who are least satisfied. The lesson from this is that sex is a two way street, whether it will be great or not is dependent on the two parties involved. The stumbling blocks are some important factors that are often taken for granted by both parties. So for the next two episodes, i will be revealing 21 amazing facts about sex. These are proven and mind-blowing sex facts that can help you to step up your bedroom game. A sexually frustrated woman is a time bomb waiting to explode, she will become a nagging woman, buy her the world, she will still not be happy. You need to understand your wife body to make her enjoy sex. Its not magic, or trial and error. Most time Men desire sex more than women, he’s just being a man. This is because testosterone, the hormone responsible for sexual Drive is about 20-40% higher in men. Women have the capacity to have multiple orgasm back to back unlike men who need to have the refractory period before picking up again. Men need just a venue to have sex but a woman need a reason e.g. sense of security, trust, feelings of being loved. About 75-85% of women will not reach orgasm through mere penile penetration. Even though latest research shows that there are other erotic spots inside a woman’s vagina that can lead to explosive orgasm, the easiest way to get a woman to cum is through clitorial stimulation or g-spot stimulation. G- spot orgasm is also difficult to achieve, but the sole purpose of the clitoris is to give a woman pleasure. Satisfying sex life may prevent divorce. This is because Oxytocin, the love and bonding hormone is released to couples system when they are both able to reach orgasm. Kissing is a good form of foreplay, and people can actually cum through kissing. A sexually frustrated man might eventually cheat or get addicted to masturbation if not curtailed. Little things count for women when it come to sex e.g. environment, scent, etc. sex can get boring and monotonous if couples are not skillful and adventurous. Having satisfying sex two to three times per week can add as many as three years to your life. Getting busy can burn an impressive amount of calories—sometimes as much as running for 3 hours. (Which would you rather do?). Nothing erodes or boosts a man ego like his sexuality. Regular sex may also lower your blood pressure, improve your sleep, boost your immunity, and protect your heart. Women can release substance like urine during orgasm, it’s not urine, it’s female ejaculation released during an explosive orgasm, it’s called squirting. Love makes for better sex. A recent study presented at the annual meeting of the American Sociological Association found that the most mind-blowing sex comes with being in love with your partner. Apart from the privilege of having multiple orgasm back to back, the female folks is also luckier than men with the duration of orgasm. The average female orgasm lasts 20 seconds — 14 seconds longer than the male’s six-second O. According to research, sexually fulfilled or satisfied people are happier and more productive at work. The clitoris contains 8,000 deliciously sensitive nerve endings, double the nerve endings in the glans of a penis. When it comes to pleasuring a woman, the size of the penis is not as important as the skill of the owner. Its more about skill than size. one of every three women experience body image self-consciousness during sexual activity, this experience is associated with lower sexual assertiveness and avoidance of sexual activity. erectile dysfunction, frigidity, low sex drive, no or low orgasm, vagina dryness etc. Having sexual issues and needs the help of a professional sex therapist? Reach Dr. Tolu for private appointment here: CLICK HERE or call 08035037992.

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MASTURBATION UNVEILED

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Someone wrote this on Goodtherapy.com: Hi. I’m not sure how to say this so I’ll just say it. I masturbate at least twice a day. Whenever I finish, I feel a profound sense of shame about it and I feel terrible for like an hour. Sometimes the shame even ruins my day. Everything I’ve read says masturbation is normal for guys, yet I can’t get past these feelings of shame and self-hatred. I feel like I should be able to exercise more willpower and stop myself when I feel the urge, but the truth is I like it and I don’t want to stop. And I’m not hurting anybody (except myself, I guess), so why should I? Do I have a problem? Why do I feel so bad about doing something that is supposedly normal? I’m not in a relationship, if that matters at all. —Deeply Ashamed I don’t know if this message sounds like you or someone close to you. I have numerous number of case similar to this, people whose lives masturbation has taken away from them, those that masturbation has rendered useless and those who have feeling serious sense of guilt and shame. Wether you are just having masturbation for fun or you are already addicted, follow me on this journey as we unveil the topic of masturbation. INTRODUCTION About ten years ago, if you google masturbation, you will see all sort of consequences on the internet like hair loss, palms growing hair, premature ejaculation, even blindness, a very long list of consequences. About five years back, you will also see that the list has reduced and today, maybe about 1% of Google result is going to give you consequences of masturbation. The world is tending to a situation where what we termed consequences are becoming acceptable situations that one can live with. While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable, and safe. It is now been accepted as a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout lifetime according to some school of thought. I listened to a Radio show within the week, and one of the ladies was talking about how, America wants to dictate to the world what should be our human right, for example, you don’t want to be gay or lesbian but the developed countries are telling you it’s your right to be. As human, you should be able to also control your choices, human beings are not animals who doesn’t have control over their emotions, you are not an helpless being who couldn’t control his/her urge or desire unless you choose to. This same scenario repeated itself when you try to read about Pornography. I was reading an article online about “does pornography has any benefit for couples” and the best I can get from all the points is that it will help you to avoid cheating and also help you fantasize about another person while making love to your spouse. So thinking about other people while making love to ones spouse has become the Masturbation is very common, more common than you can imagine. Studies show that about 7 out of 10 adult men and more than 5 out of 10 adult women masturbates. There are different percentage of people masturbating online, but the truth remains that masturbation has eaten deep into the society. Masturbation is a good topic most learned people don’t want to talk about because of its controversial nature. Most Counselors or social workers always find themselves in a difficult situation when discussing the topic with clients especially in this part of the world because of our societal values and religious beliefs. When I discussed masturbation on my Tv show, it was as a result of the rate of occurrence of counseling with people battling with masturbation issues, and it was during this period I realized that this is a topic worth discussing because of its impact on the society. I have seen a lot of couples battles my with erectile dysfunction as a result of husband been addicted to masturbation, I have counsel general overseer who couldn’t do well in the place of prayer as a result of guilt from masturbation. Many people think that others masturbate only when they do not have a sex partner. But that is not true. In fact, people who have regular sex partners are more likely to masturbate than people without sex partners. Research shows that married people masturbates more than singles now, that is why a lot of married women are resulting to sex toys and self satisfaction. In discussing this topic, I’m not going to be talking from the medical angle but from the social, mental and psychological perspectives, my conclusions are drawn from years of experience in counseling people, studies and research and people’s opinion, but at the end of the day, it’s not in my place to judge or condemn anyone, I will give you my strong reasons, and its left for you to draw your conclusion and make your choice. DEFINITION Masturbation is commonly defined as touching one’s own body, including sex organs, for sexual pleasure. When you do it alone or yourself, it’s called masturbation. Some people will call touching your partners genital masturbation, but I agree with the school of thought that calls it foreplay. Some children has the attitude of touching themselves, this shouldn’t be termed masturbation, because to these young ones, it’s just a simple harmless act as picking one’s nose. There are many slang terms for masturbation, including Jacking off jilling off jerking off spanking the monkey double clicking the mouse self-love etc Masturbation often ends in orgasm, but not always. There’s hardly any way you can talk about masturbation without talking about pornography, they go hands in hands. Porn is the major trigger for masturbation. WHY DO PEOPLE MASTURBATE/ EXCUSES FOR MASTURBATING The

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THE MAN WITH TWO PENISES MEETS WITH THE WOMAN WITH A DOUBLE VAGINA

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DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH TWO PENISES AND VAGINAS? WILL YOU LIKE TO SHARE WITH US IF YOU HAVE SEEN OR KNOW ANYONE LIKE THAT? READ ON: The Man With Two Penises Meets The Woman With A ‘Double-Vagina’ Penises. Every man’s got one, but it’s not everyday you meet someone hiding TWO sexual organs tucked between their legs. Juan Baptista dos Santos, born in 1843 in Portugal, was one such rare specimen. The extraordinary Santos was not only born with three legs, but was also endowed with an extra snake in his trousers, too. Oh, and that’s on top of the four testicles rounding out his legendary set of auxiliary appendages. ‘(He) finishes with one, then continues with the other’ If you’re thinking this is some third-nipple type deal where the extra member resembles more some kind of negligible nubbin than a fully fledged double-dong, take a look at this startling account from a man who once photographed Santos in the flesh: the sight of a female is sufficient to excite his amorous propensities. He functions with both of the penes, finishes with one, then continues with the other. You wouldn’t be alone in thinking a man such as Santos would struggle in finding a suitable sexual partner equipped to deal with this exceptional organ arrangement. Well, they say there’s a perfect match for everyone – a saying epitomized by these two love birds: In the 1800s another individual had become notorious for her atypical sexual organs. Her name was Blanche Dumas, also known in Paris as the ‘3-legged Courtesan.’ Dumas was herself born with three legs and two vaginas, making these two a match made in heaven. Long story short the physically compatible pair hooked up, the logistics of which I’m sure you can figure out for yourself. It’s such a beautifully romantic tale, I’m surprised the film rights have yet to be snagged up. History Repeats Itself Remarkably, over 150 years later, this love story of organ abundance may be about to repeat itself! Last Christmas an anonymous American in his mid-twenties known as ‘Diphallic Dude’ published a revealing memoir detailing his experience of living with two penises. Though his parents reassured him that his extra appendage made him special and unique, he understandably had difficulties fitting in at school. After all, a double barreled pee stream isn’t the commonest of sights at the urinal. He said: “Initially I didn’t want people in school to know because I didn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I didn’t want others guys to be jealous or feel bad that they didn’t have two. It was never put into my head they might hate me because I had two or they might think I was weird.” Since then, however, Diphallic Dude claims to have bedded over 1000 sexual partners and says his dual-manhood is more often a source of fascination and allure than any kind of deal breaking put-off. His blessing from birth has proved liberating for him as he’s learnt to embrace his difference and celebrate physical diversity rather than criticize it: I wanted to do whatever I wanted to do with whoever I wanted to do it with – whoever would do it with me. It was owning it, it was being me and accepting it and putting them to use. In case you’re wondering about logistical specifics, Diphallic Dude has said that his penises do pee at the same time, but can become erect independently. Also, he has a favorite (the right one). In a stunning turn of coincidence, our modern day Juan Baptista dos Santos might be about to meet his Blanche Dumas equivalent…except rather than a 19th century French courtesan, this woman is a YouTube star. Earlier this week, model Cassandra Bankson revealed her atypical sexual condition: uterus didelphys. If you hadn’t guessed it means she has two functioning vaginas as well as two wombs. In an interview with Barcroft media, Bankson said: “It’s probably like a nose, if you could imagine it upside down. Everything looks the same so I never really noticed a difference but on the inside most vaginas have this opening and then everything is one large cavity. For me there’s almost this split right down the middle, just like a septum in a nose.” It remains to be seen whether history will indeed repeat itself again. Regardless, it’s stories like this that remind us however different we think we are from everyone else, however isolated and ‘abnormal’ you may feel, there is always someone out there going through the exact same thing. You just have to seek them out. (Source: https://moviepilot.com )

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MAN NABBED AT THE POINT OF RAPING A SIX YEARS OLD

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Rasheed Adedeji Fatuga shared on his Instagram page the story of a man who attempted to rape a 6 years old today. According to him, the man in question has moved away from the area, but came visiting his former neighbors, he was welcomed and entertained. As the neighbors were distracted, he lured one of their daughters to an uncompleted building around the area. He was seen and caught by a passerby as he was about to rape the six years old girl in the uncompleted building around Kasoleri area, close to Agbala Itura, Ikorodu. With the current rate of evil in the society, one cannot be too careful in protecting the children.

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PRESIDENT BUHARI’S OFFICIAL PHOTOGRAPHER BECOMES A FATHER OF TWIN

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President Buhari’s official Photographer, Bayo Omoboriowo, becomes a father of Twins _ Lola Omitokun Omoboriowo, wife of Buhari’s photographer Bayo, recently gave birth to twins, LimeliteTV gathered. – Lola Omoboriowo nee Omitokun, daughter of a retired Naval officer, and the twins are all healthy, happy and doing fine, according to close family sources. _ The relative did not say where the twins were born but the couple appear to have been spending much of their time together, especially with president Buhari away in England. _ Bayo Omoboriowo, was included in the governor’s delegation that visited ailing president Buhari in London recently. We learnt that the couple adopted a low profile during the pregnancy, keeping the news private for months before and after the arrival of the twins. _ Mrs Omoboriowo is related to nobility as her mother Sis Tokunbo is from the Owo Royal family in Ondo state, the Olagbegi’s, Limelite also gathered. _ The Olagbegi family is a royal family in Owo, Ondo State. Members of the family are descendants of Olagbegi Atanneye I, the Olowo of Owo who reigned between 1913 and 1938. – Via @limelitenaija

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WAKE UP AND LIVE YOUR DREAM!

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Ive always known i have passion for helping people. When i was in the university, my friends are always waiting for me to help settle their disagreements, Tolu is always like a peacemaker, who will help friends and couples to sort their differences. Unfortunately i didn’t realise the ability i have on time, instead of concentrating on developing my gift and calling, i was busy chasing shadows. I have done virtually any type of business you can think of, from boutique to saloon, spa, consulting, importation, name it…. Some, i was making money, and some wasn’t just working. While all these were going on, i knew there was something on the inside of me that needed to be developed, something my world is waiting for, something special that will affect humanity positively at the same time make me fulfilled. I discovered my path through a tragedy, my then office was demolished as a result of road construction. Kento place was a unique and popular place on stadium road, Port Harcourt, one of the most beautiful office on that axis then, unfortunately i lost it and have to retire home with nothing. It was a this period i returned to God for direction, ‘what exactly will you have me do, my father’, i cried unto Him and He gave me the name INTIMATE TALK WITH TOLU. I started doing research on my calling, i prayed, read books, research online, and doors of favors were opening, within 6 months i was on radio and TV in Port Harcourt, in two years INTIMATE TALK WITH TOLU became a household name, i couldn’t walk in the street of Port Harcourt without people screaming my name, people run to me telling me how i saved there marriages. Mails, calls and text messages of appreciation were coming in from all part of Nigeria and Africa, because by then the show was already on Nollywwod channel. At this point, i wasn’t making money, but i was making impact, i was changing lives, building dreams, mending homes and building relationships, I was fulfilled. Then, i decided to take this a step further by getting certified, ALAS! nowhere to get certification as a marriage counselor in Nigeria. The only solution is for me to go back to the university, but as at then, i was already a master degree holder in economics and i was also training a group of guidance and counseling/counseling psychology undergraduates, because most time, they learn theories, and applying the knowledge to real life scenario seems impossible for them, that, i was doing effortlessly. This brings me to our educational system, we need to be more flexible, instead of applying rigid training of theories that cant be applied to real life situation, we need to concentrate on developing the inner ability of the students, spending donkey years in school without practical ability is nothing. I said to myself, i cant call myself a professional counselor without a proper certification, and for 6 moths, i was searching through google. I didn’t make any headway until i have an opportunity to travel out of the country for counseling training. When i came back, i made up my mind to fill this vacuum in the filed of clinical counseling. This article is actually not about my life, but a wake up call for someone who is reading this, someone who has passion for helping people, the passion is burning in you and you know you cant continue to fold your arms. Some of you are already helping the children, youth, teenagers or couples in your local church or mosque. You know you need to do more, you know you need to take this a step further, in fact you know you can create a career fro yourself and make a living out of this. Your world is waiting for you to evolve, the society needs you, we need counselors in Nigeria, we need therapists, we need teen counselors to assist the teenagers, we need child therapist to speak the language the children understand, we need marriage counselors, grief and bereavement counselors etc. You know you have the gift, calling and passion for this and you wan to take it a step further, this is the appointed time, stop delaying, WAKE UP! because when you get to heaven, God will ask you how far you went with the gifts he has deposited in you, the beautiful thing is, you can fulfill your dreams and at the same time make a living out of it. The journey is easier now, in one, six or 12 months, you can get a certificate or diploma in any of your chosen counseling field. Your journey no longer have to be long and tough like mine, register now at the first ever counseling institute in Africa. I will also be here to support, guide and supervise you till you achieve your dream. click here to register: www.instituteofcounselingng.org or call the admin on: +2349094812983. My Name is Tolulope Oko-Igaire, The Principal of The Institute of counseling in Nigeria ICN. I’m living my dreams, and now is the time to live yours!

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SCIENCE AND KISSING 2

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So what is the purpose of kissing? Imagine a kiss being like a job interview for the elusive role of being someone’s significant other. The interviewer is looking for the candidate who best matches the job description. Similarly, when we kiss, we are looking for a mate that best matches our genetic make-up. ‘Wait, what do genes have to do with kissing?!’ – I hear you scream. Well, we actually have a group of genes called the MHC (major histocompatibility complex) genes that form part of our immune system and give us our natural scent. In a famous experiment, women overwhelmingly preferred the smell of t-shirts worn by men with different MHC genes from their own. This is because when two people with different MHC genes mate, the baby they would produce would have a selection of components from each of their immune systems. A more diverse immune system has a greater ability to fight disease. Therefore, opposites really do attract. This explains why we prefer kissing one person over another. It’s in our genes. What happens in our brains when we kiss? The brain goes into overdrive during the all-important kiss. It dedicates a disproportionate amount of space to the sensation of the lips in comparison to much larger body parts. During a kiss, this lip sensitivity causes our brain to create a chemical cocktail that can give us a natural high. This cocktail is made up of three chemicals, all designed to make us feel good and crave more: dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin. Like any cocktail, this one has an array of side-effects. The combination of these three chemicals work by lighting up the ‘pleasure centers’ in our brain. The dopamine released during a kiss can stimulate the same area of the brain activated by heroin and cocaine. As a result, we experience feelings of euphoria and addictive behavior. Oxytocin, otherwise known as the ‘love hormone’, fosters feelings of affection and attachment. This is the same hormone that is released during childbirth and breastfeeding. Finally, the levels of serotonin present in the brain whilst kissing look a lot like those of someone with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. No wonder the memory of a good kiss can stay with us for years. Is there a difference in Platonic and non-Platonic kisses? Anyone who has ever given their best friend a quick kiss on the cheek will know it feels very different to the rush of sensations experienced when you make out with the smouldering hottie you’ve been chatting up all night. Non-romantic kissing is very common, but it is much more of a cultural phenomenon than the romantic kiss. Children blow kisses to their parents, some Europeans air-kiss as a greeting, and we kiss friends to say farewell. The closeness inherent in these kisses can create feelings of affection or respect, but not the feelings of euphoria that usually follow a romantic kiss. Platonic kisses are usually brief pecks on the cheek. In contrast, romantic kisses involve intimate, lengthy lip-to-lip contact. Since it is this lip contact that activates the chemical cocktail in the brain, a Platonic kiss just can’t compete. Like many human behaviors, kissing is fascinating and complex. We have a lot left to learn about kissing, so get out there and research in the name of science with one partner preferably. Emer Maguire

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SCIENCE AND KISSING

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Why do we kiss? Kissing is wonderful – so wonderful that most of us can recall 90 per cent of the details of our first kiss. Human beings have been preoccupied with kissing for years. It features as the climax of all great Hollywood love stories, and is celebrated by singers and poets alike. In reality, kissing is nothing more than two people putting their faces together and exchanging spit. How on earth did something so gross become so appealing? The act of kissing has developed to become advantageous to humans: if it didn’t serve an evolutionary purpose, we simply would not do it. So what’s in a kiss? More than you might think. Nature versus nurture A kiss might seem like a natural thing to do for most of us, but the scientific jury is still out on whether it is a learned or instinctual behavior. Approximately 90 per cent of cultures kiss, making a strong case for the act being a basic human instinct. I know what you’re thinking…what about the other ten per cent? If kissing was a natural behavior, surely all cultures would do it? While this small minority doesn’t ‘kiss’ like the rest of us (due to superstitions and cultural beliefs), they may still engage in kissing-like behaviors, such as rubbing noses together. If kissing is a natural instinct, why don’t animals kiss? Many animals actually do engage in kissing-like behaviors to show affection. These behaviors are so diverse, from dogs sniffing and licking potential mates, to elephants putting their trunks in each other’s mouths. However, one animal kisses just like we do: the bonobo ape. This isn’t too surprising, considering we share 98.7 per cent of our DNA with this hairy cousin. Bonobos kiss for comfort and to socialize. Sometimes after a fight they even kiss and make up. We humans kiss for the exact same reasons, indicating that kissing might be ingrained deep in our DNA. How did the kiss evolve? Many scientists believe that kissing came from the practice of kiss-feeding, where mothers would feed their young mouth-to-mouth. Imagine birds feeding worms to their little chicks. Cute, right? Now imagine someone feeding you your chewed-up breakfast via their mouth. This sounds disgusting to most people, but we humans used to do it all the time! From this passing of food, pressing lips became synonymous with love. Understandable, since the way to most people’s hearts are through their stomachs. Over time, this symbol of affection may have evolved to give us romantic kissing. To be continued…

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True Love Stories…

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After 35 years of marriage with four children and four grandchildren, former secondary school teacher, Mr Kolawole and his wife, got their dream destination pre-wedding photo session in Canada courtesy of their photographer son, Jide Kola. Oh what a joy of shared values and dreams. Years down the line, you can look back and be proud of the decision you took with that individual. hat could be more beautiful and perfect like a love story you wrote for and by yourself. Its not enough to know what you want or require out of life or marriage, what counts is what and how you do it. and most importantly, who you choose as your teammate…. To this couple, who would have enough experiences to fill a book, you are celebrated. love stories like yours is what the world should revolve around…..

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WHAT DO YOU WANT?

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So many people have a very long list about what their ideal man should look like and I am not an exception. Before I met my Ideal man, i already had it clear in my mind that I wanted the ‘PERFECT’ man and at the same time, he was going to be the first and only man in my life. It was a difficult task and none of my friends believed I would accomplish it. They would advise me to have fun, go out, find a boyfriend, meet new people and have many experiences with guys so that, one day, I could finally commit to someone. But I had already made up my mind about it and I had never been so focused about an issue in my life. When I was a teenager, I had this list of what my ideal man should be: handsome, well-off, caring, understanding, God-fearing, intelligent – I could have gone on and on then about what qualities my ideal man should have. However, as I grew older, I realized that I could never really find a real person who met all these sterling qualities. Something’s like relationships and marriage just needed to be taken out of the teenage thinking box. I have had just 3boyfriends and trust me I could tell what an ideal man is all about, at least with this few experiences of mine. All these three guys were nothing close to what I had in mind as an ideal man. They were cheats, liars and also perverts. Yes I know not all men are liars and cheats but trust me this three guys were top the list I met Femi. I can say Femi is my ideal man and it had nothing to do with the list I created. Like I said nobody is perfect, finding an individual who ticks all your boxes should actually feel suspicious. But, who knows? Femi didnt tick everything on my list but there were something’s I noticed he had that I didn’t see in any other guy. Some values and character traits he exhibited that I had not taken cognizance of before now. These were character traits that challenged me to become better than I was and suddenly matured my way of thinking. These characters include: Character Maturity Intelligence Compatibility Fear Of GOD. So ladies, If you are ‘chilling’ (ladies do not find, we chill and let love find us) for that ideal man, here goes my list of 5 crucial qualities but not limited to, that an ideal man should possess. Trust me even without telling you, it is something you already should be looking out for. Also if you are a guy seeking to become an ideal man: work on the following trait. They are; 1. Character – This is the main attribute in making another person happy. If a man’s character lacks truth, honesty and sincerity, then he lacks everything a relationship requires in order to survive. Beware! 2. Maturity – Immature men like showing off: they are afraid of commitment, they are insecure about their future and they are naive. There’s nothing worse for a woman having to submit to an insecure man. A woman needs a strong and mature man by her side, one that knows where he’s going in life, that is brave enough to solve problems with his own hands and that will be able to care for her like any good and responsible man should. 3. Intelligence – intelligent men think before acting or saying anything. This makes them capable of thinking about the consequences- giving women that extra admiration, respect and assurance for them. With so many women throwing themselves at married men out there, this is by far, a crucial quality to ensure faithfulness. 4. Compatibility – This is the quality that allows a man and women to fit well with each other like puzzle pieces. 5. Fear of God – The man that fears God will never betray his woman, especially when she’s not around. Dear Ladies, seek men that make a deliberate effort to add positive things in your life. The relationships we get into shouldn’t drag us below but help us become better. However, attracting and accepting an ideal man lies on you becoming an IDEAL WOMAN.

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21 AMAZING FACTS ABOUT SEX

MASTURBATION UNVEILED

THE MAN WITH TWO PENISES MEETS WITH THE WOMAN WITH A DOUBLE VAGINA

MAN NABBED AT THE POINT OF RAPING A SIX YEARS OLD

PRESIDENT BUHARI’S OFFICIAL PHOTOGRAPHER BECOMES A FATHER OF TWIN

WAKE UP AND LIVE YOUR DREAM!

SCIENCE AND KISSING 2

SCIENCE AND KISSING

True Love Stories…

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