Introduction In my close to two decades of practice as an African therapist living in Africa, I have seen so many issues that are rarely thought in textbooks. It is no news that most, if not all of the counseling...
Marriage is designed to be one of the most powerful sources of emotional safety, attachment security, and psychological regulation. In a healthy relational environment, partners function as emotional anchors for one another, providing comfort, validation, connection, and stability. However,...
In my years of working intimately with couples across Africa, particularly in Nigeria, I’ve seen a recurring pattern that many men are silently battling with, erectile dysfunction that is selective. These men are not entirely impotent; in fact, many of...
SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION: It is the consistent, recurring difficulty experienced by an individual during any phase of the sexual cycle that prevents the individual or couple from experiencing satisfaction from the sexual activity. In other words, when anything hinders an individual...
In Nigeria, there is no statistics of how many people get married out of love, thus majority of people get married for the wrong reasons which leads to unhappiness. In this part of the world, couples fail to understand that...
So what is the purpose of kissing? Imagine a kiss being like a job interview for the elusive role of being someone’s significant other. The interviewer is looking for the candidate who best matches the job description. Similarly, when we kiss, we are looking for a...
Why do we kiss? Kissing is wonderful – so wonderful that most of us can recall 90 per cent of the details of our first kiss. Human beings have been preoccupied with kissing for years. It features as the climax of all great...
You might disagreed with me when I talked about chasing a good woman instead of chasing money, but have you ever considered the life of a rich man with a bad wife? Is there any peace of mind or...
Dear Madam Tolu. I have something burning on my mind which I like to discuss with you ma.I’ve this lady that I love so much and she loves me too in returns. However she is a mother of two kids, her...
It’s saddening the rate at which many ministers’ wives frustrate their husbands and paralyze their anointing due to their ignorance and nonchalant attitude towards their sexuality. The level of pretense and hypocrisy in church today has degenerated so drastically that...
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