LET MEN BE MEN!
It’s saddening the rate at which many ministers’ wives frustrate their husbands and paralyze their anointing due to their ignorance and nonchalant attitude towards their sexuality. The level of pretense and hypocrisy in church today has degenerated so drastically that something has to be done fast. I have counsel regional pastors who are masturbating, general overseers who has permanent girlfriends, ministers who are regular callers at prostitute brothels etc, but I understand that this is not edifying and it is not in my place to judge them as a clinical counselor, and I also know that if their churches learn about these escapades, it might be the end of their ministries.
One general thing I find out about these men is the fact that, they all want to stop what they are doing, they are struggling to come out, but the mother in Israel , the mama, I mean their wives who are suppose to be helping them are totally lost in their ignorance. Yes, no reason is good enough to justify these acts, and I’m not denying the fact that women has the right to say no sometimes (with genuine excuse though), but one needs to walk in peoples shoes before judging them, these are men, we call them men of God, but there is men before the of God, they have blood running in their veins, they have hormones delicately wired in their system by God himself. Fine, the Holy Spirit is there to help subdue the flesh, but when a man is married, there are certain privileges he’s suppose to be enjoying, and there are acts and actions that need to be put up by the wife to keep things sparkling, these are marital principles that has their basis in the Bible.
It’s a common saying that a man needs just a place to have sex why a woman needs a reason or reasons, sex and love doesn’t go hands in hand for men, a man can sleep with a woman without having any feelings whatsoever for her, his only aim is to satisfy his sexual urge. The argument of most ministers is the fact that a man that has been broken by the holy spirit should be able to put his flesh under control, it is true, but the journey will be smoother and easier with a cooperating and understanding wife, who knows how to give it to him without starving him sexually.
As a minister’s wife, you will be saving him a lot of energy and stress by allowing him to balance up his sexual life. Some will rather spend their whole day tending to the pastor than attends to the needs of the husband, it is very wrong, the order is God-your husband-your pastor, it’s not the other way round, the pastor has his own wife and you will save your marriage a lot of headaches by doing things rightly.
So many minister’s wives have pushed their husband to a journey of no return; God will not spare you when it comes to judging that man. So many have abandoned their roles as wives and are totally consumed by the fantasy of being a mama. Maybe you didn’t realize how many times you have made your husband to cry at night, you don’t consider the level of emotional and spiritual bondage you are keeping your man. He is your husband first before been someone’s pastors. So many have neglected their looks, allowing the husband to fantasize about female members knowing full well that the bible says if a man look lustfully he has already committed adultery.
Stop using sex a s a weapon of warfare. You have made life so boring and frustrating for your husband that he doesn’t even look forward to coming home anymore. You have become a regular caller at the most popular prayer mountains casting and binding when all you need is simple romantic gesture to put your home back on track. At the end this book, things should change, a virtuous woman understands how to balance things up, screw your husband and make him beg for more, look and smell good for him, bring him back to you and make life beautiful again, it is achievable, it is not a sin. (c)ITWT2016.
This is taken from my book, ministers wives and sexuality. Call: 08184575377 to order or for speaking engagements.
