SIMPLE STEPS IN MAKING LOVE TO A WOMAN
One of the commonest questions most men ask is how to make love to a woman, most men are confused because of the complexity of women sexuality, and many turn to friends or even pornography in the quest to learn how to satisfy their wife in bed. Some even make the mistake of comparing their ex to their wife, this has a way of complicating things, even though women has the same body part but the way they respond to sexual moves are different, so it’s very wrong to think Mrs. A will react exactly the way Mrs. B does. But in solving this complicated issue, there is a generalized step on what might interest women in bed, these includes:
- Get her in the mood: Putting her in the mood doesn’t start few minutes to the action, it has a lot to do with the mood in your marriage. The major reason having a steamy sex life in a bad marriage could be difficult. If you are looking forward to love making in the night, be nice to her during the day.
2. Use foreplay: According to research, about 75-85% of women will not achieve orgasm through mere penile penetration. Getting use to foreplay and understanding the pro and cons will make her scream.
3. Build eye to eye contact: Don’t try to jump straight into action without getting connected, whether you are working your way up or down, be sure to maintain eye contacts. Your five senses must be put to use during the act of love making.
4. Stimulate her vagina (cunninlingus): No clitorial stimulation, no orgasm says a renowned international sex therapist. In fact, penile penetration will only be enjoyed in a position that brushes the clitoris while thrusting. The vagina is one place you must learn to do right.
5. Tease her: tickle, bite gently and say funny things that will make her giggle.
6. Start gently and build up intensity: Slow and steady wins the race in understanding the act of love making for a woman.
7. Make her feel connected: If she cant get connected to you, she will never enjoy it. Women need reasons to make love while men need just a place.
THE DON’TS
1. Don’t try too many styles, keep it simple as possible.
2. Do not go to sleep immediately after making love to her. After making love to her, spend time laughing and talking to together, no matter how difficult.
3. Do not enter her until she is very wet. Ensure that you spend extensive amount of time on foreplay and make her wet.
4. Don’t rush
5. Don’t make negative comments about her body.
6. Don’t be selfish
7. Don’t pull/ push her head down
8. Don’t handle the breast like a carpenter, its not a balloon.
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