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HOW TO BE A BETTER LOVER IN BED

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HOW TO BE A BETTE LOVER IN BED Someone once said that men are from Mars while women are from Pluto. When it comes to sexual satisfaction, getting it right with women could be tiresome for some men who are selfish when it comes to bedmatics. Most of the time arousal comes before desire for women and the opposite is the case for most men, this contradictions can create a huge gap if not well managed and most time might result to the man being termed selfish. However, if you have ever been referred to as a selfish lover by a woman, you know that it hits a little closer to home. Every man wants to be successful – in life, as well as in bed. So if a woman is complaining that you are too selfish during sex, it’s time to take stalk of the situation. Ultimately, being selfish means knowing how to keep your self happy. In the worst case, however, selfishness can mean satisfying yourself at the cost of others’ unhappiness. When it comes to being a selfish lover, more often than not, men get away with a lot. Men’s selfishness in bed is often associated with their inability to control themselves when faced with extremely sexy situations. Most women appreciate the fact that men usually climax easier and sooner than they do. But if you are trying to sustain a long term sexual relationship with a woman, eventually your selfishness will come back to haunt you. So how can you tell if you are a selfish lover, or if your woman is just extremely hard to please? It is important to consider the following questions: 1. When you initiate sex do you aim to please her as much as yourself? 2. Do you have an idea of what exactly she wants and how she wants it? 3. If she is not quite in the mood, do you make an effort during foreplay to excite her? 4. Throughout intercourse, do you focus on achieving your own climax, or do you try to encourage her and share in the excitement together? If you answered no to any or all of these questions, you may be a selfish lover with a potential woman problem on your hands. Yet before you re-evaluate your own selfish ways, you must also gauge how picky or demanding a woman is when it comes to sexual encounters. 1. Does she complain that you made no effort or finished too quickly, even though she achieved orgasm – or at least appeared to do so? 2. Does she make less effort than you in bed and always blame you when the experience is not satisfying in the end? 3. Do you sometimes feel like no matter what you do, she is just not easy to please in bed, or otherwise? Women are generally more high maintenance than men in life and in bed, but if the woman you are with makes it impossible for both of you to enjoy sex together – it might be time for her to change her ways rather than you. That said, there are some small adjustments that you can make which will help you become a less selfish lover. It comes down to three traits that are easy to acquire with just a little practice: appreciation, openness, and energy. Keeping these few points in mind will help you to be a better lover in bed: Appreciation: When it comes to being less selfish in bed, appreciation of your partner is essential. In order to appreciate your partners’ sexuality, you need to feel a certain level of physical attraction to her. If your attraction wanes or you find it difficult to sustain it, it is going to be difficult to appreciate her and make a greater effort during sex. So chose your partners wisely, and when you feel that the spark is missing, make it a point of duty to try to re-ignite it. 2. Attraction: If attraction is not an issue, than appreciation of her sexuality should not be either. However, everyone is different, and sometimes even though you are attracted to a woman, you have an even greater urge to satisfy yourself. If you intend to carry on a long term relationship with her, try to turn the tables and shift your attention towards her sexuality rather than your own. 3. She comes first: Rather than rushing her, If you make the effort to please her every so often – most women would be happy to achieve complete sexual satisfaction once a week – you will likely be able to maintain a healthy and satisfying relationship for an extended period of time. 4. Openness: The next essential trait to develop in order to become a less selfish lover is openness. Chances are, if your woman is calling you selfish in bed and she seems genuinely concerned about it, your lack of attention to her needs will lead to the end of the relationship. But if you are open to discussing your sexual needs, they are more likely to show significant improvement. For example, if your woman complained after the last time you had sex, maybe you should commence the next session by asking her exactly what she wants you to do to her, and demanding that she give you an answer. 5. Communication: If she is interested in improving your sex life together, she will make an effort to communicate rather than just complain about your shortcomings. On your part, it is important to be open to discussion about changing some of your selfish ways, which may be difficult in the start, but pay off huge in the end. 6. Invest your energy: Becoming a less selfish lover involves one final component: energy. You must take time to evaluate how much energy you are willing to expend on improving your ‘moves’. You must also assess whether the energy you put into reforming is a response to her complaints

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101 FUN PLACES TO HAVE SEX BEFORE YOU DIE

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FUN PLACES YOU’VE HAD SEX BEFORE,SHARE WITH INTIMATE TALK……. 102 FUN PLACES TO HAVE SEX Most couples complain of boring sex and dry sex life. Has your love life stalled? Are you looking to spice up your sex life? What about new positions, situations or places? If you and your partner are looking for something exciting check out this collection of ideas for places to have sex. From romantic and sensual to sexy and sexually liberating, this list of places to have sex has something that will excite you and your If your sex life is getting boring,spice it up with one of this fun places to have sex,you will like the experience and feel refreshed again,some sound foreign but most are definitely practice-able…… You wont mind sharing some of the fun places you’ve had sex before with intimate talk, someone is definitely learning from your experience….INTIMATE TALK…CHECK OUT THESE 101 FUN PLACES AND ALSO SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE. On a porch swing. 2. Inside an unknown rocky cave or limestone cave. 3. In the weight room at your gym. 4. In your not-yet-finished new build house. 5. On the hood of your car on a deserted gravel road. 6. On a pool table. 7. On top of the washer… while it’s running. 8. On a soft rug in front of a fireplace. 9. On a secluded island beach. 10. In the backyard under the stars. 11. In the woods after it rains. 12. On a motorcycle. 13. In a public restroom. 14. In an airplane restroom — join the mile high club! 15. On a train in the middle of the night. 16. In bed with silk or satin sheets. 17. In bed with rose petals all over. 18. On the beach at night. 19. In your lover’s childhood room while their parents are home. 20. Outside in the rain. 21. In a hot tub. 22. On the deck of a yacht during a full moon. 23. Under a rainbow. 24. On a trampoline. 25. On top of a hill. 26. In the middle of nowhere. 27. In the car during heavy traffic. 28. In the car on the side of a deserted road. 29. In a hotel. 30. In a state park. 31. On a waterbed. 32. On the loft in a barn full of hay. 33. In a field full of wildflowers. 34. On a rooftop. 35. In an open field at night. 36. By a waterfall with the water misting all around you. 37. Under a waterfall. 38. In the garage. 39. On a jungle gym at night. 40. Outside during sunset. 41. In the car going through an automated car wash. 42. On your patio, balcony, or deck on a starry night. 43. In the mountains. 44. On an abandoned air field. 45. Under the full moon in wet grass. 46. On a porch swing. 47. In the living room during the day with the windows wide open. 48. On a blanket beside a lake. 49. In an elevator. 50. On the bathroom floor. 51. In your partner’s parents room. 52. In a sauna. 53. In a very big bed. 54. On the top bunk of a bunk bed. 55. In a tent. 56. At your office. 57. On your office desk. 58. On a boat deck with the waves gently rocking you. 59. In a tree house. 60. In a department store restroom. 61. In the restroom at a restaurant. 62. In a hot air balloon. 63. In a room filled with lit candles. 64. In a bathtub. 65. In the shower. 66. In a canoe on a river. 67. On a baseball diamond at night. 68. In a swimming pool. 69. At the bottom of the grand canyon. 70. In a beach house with a light breeze gusting outside. 71. Off a beaten trail in the woods. 72. In every room of your house. 73. On a chair. 74. On an air mattress. 75. On your kitchen table. 76. In a screened in porch in the middle of a thunderstorm. 77. On a hotel balcony, covered with a fuzzy blanket. 78. In a sleeping bag under the stars. 79. On a paddle boat on a lake. 80. In the bed of a truck on a hot summer night. 81. In the ocean… ride the waves. 82. In a room filled with balloons. 83. In front of a video camera. 84. In an abandoned barn on the hay wearing nothing but cowboy boots and a cowboy hat. 85. On an old sheet with chocolate body frosting. 86. On a bed surrounded by pillows. 87. At a bed and breakfast. 88. On an amusement park ride… tunnel of love, in the dark? 89. In the back of a limo. 90. Next to a campfire. 91. On a golf course. 92. In the car at a drive-in movie. 93. On really plush carpet. 94. In your house during a thunderstorm, with a window open and rain misting in. 95. On a picnic table. 96. In a hammock. 97. On horseback. 98. While scuba-diving. 99. On a ferris wheel when you’re stuck at the top. 100. At a rest area. 101. In a corn field.

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THE ORDER OF LOVEMAKING

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A lot of couples are in a sexually frustrating marriage because they put the wrong thing first. There are orders in which things must be done when it comes to the act of love making. Follow these five orders of lovemaking and find out why your sex life is becoming frustrating. Attraction: A lot of people will never be able to enjoy the act of love making if they are not attracted to their partner. For some, this where the act begins. Men: its is no doubt that men are moved by what they see, a man can be attracted to a low class empty brain lady, with poor hygiene just because of her well rounded boobs or protruding back sides. For men, the appeal mostly comes from conceiving the thought of how it will feel like touching those organs. majority of men are easily carried away by the female physical appearance and that is why its more complicated to be a man in a world full of half naked ladies in lycra tights. Blame it on the hormones, he’s not a loose Jack, he’s just being a man. This is why it takes discipline, total commitment, fear of God and genuine love for a man to stay loyal to his woman. Now, imagine a man who is lucky to have a physically attractive wife with all the juicy organs in the right places, she’s intelligent and smart, that means he could also be attracted to her brain and at the same time he’s head over heels in love with her. To top it all she’s clean in an out, smells good and understands what to wear to tun him on. Love making comes easily for that kind of man, and giving her a head becomes an easy task. Women: Attractions counts for women a lot, and most time its more about emotional connection rather than physical attractions, a clean looking man is just an icing on the cake. That is why trying to arouse a woman who is not emotionally connected to a man is always a daunting task. About 75% of women will not just ook at a man and start getting wet just because he has six packs, attraction for a woman is more complicated than that, unresolved issues between the two must be resolved before a woman can get down without reservations and give her all. Desire: The desire to make love could be triggered by so many reasons, for men is majorly about attraction but for women its more complicated. unresolved issues, physical distractions like a cracking bed, children, or roughly shaven beard will all affect how deep her desire will be. Domestic and financial issues also affects a man sexual desire a whole lot, but most time he can see sex as a mean of cooling off when in such situations but for a woman at such time sex comes last. this is why some women will like to discuss money during the act in order to clear their mind so they can concentrate, even though the unwise or mischievous women negotiates before making love just to use it a s a weapon. She could also be overwhelmed with chores and activities, especially when the husband shows no sign of empathy or appreciation. Insecurity about body or organs can result to low self esteem which could also lead to lack of desire both in men an women. Arousal: There are lots that could be done during the act of love making to get your partner aroused. Mere looking at a woman naked body can give a man an erection like i said before, but for a woman especially when circumcised, you might have to go all the way. Now, this is where I’m actually going, a sexually frustrated marriage is mostly that of couples who ignored point one and two and jump to point three. How do you arouse a woman who is not attracted to you at the same time has no desire for sex. touching, necking, pecking, licking or any act of fore play will be a turn off for a woman who has lost her desire for sex. This is where most men are frustrated, ‘ I touched her and do everything to get her aroused, and still she won’t bulge” she will not, because she has lost the desire. You both need to concentrate on attraction and desire before talking about arousal. Orgasm: Even though a man can ejaculate without attraction, desire and arousal, its going to be a boring exercise and a frustrating one for him. A great sex is one in which a man is able to connect with his wife mind, soul and body, one in which the woman participates, vulnerable and gives her all without reservations, that is what a great sex is for a man, its beyond just ejaculating, its intense, deep, exhausting and satisfying love making. A man whose wife keeps lying like a log of wood or cold ice might start loosing his desire gradually as well. In this case for a woman, this is not just about not having great sex, its about no sex at all. Without attraction and desire forget orgasm for a woman. Sex becomes extra work and orgasm becomes achievable for a woman who has no desire for sex. Reaffirmation: This is the period of relaxing after a great love making exercise, for a man, sleep is the best form of reaffirmation, if she sleeps off immediately then shes exhausted and it automatically means she enjoys it, even though this could be true, the opposite is the case for a woman. She wants a man who will reassure her of how great she was in bed, rub his hands on her hair and kiss her forehead before snoring.

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KISSING 101

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  As simple as it sounds, kissing can make or mar your marriage. Most of the big issues couples are struggling with in their marriages started with just a little act of ignorance. When a professional kisser or someone who is good in the act of kissing get married to someone who is an amateur or clueless in the act, you should expect a marriage full of nagging and turbulence, how manage, you said? Let me explain this….. Kissing is one of the few firs steps during the act of lovemaking. To a woman, love making is a gradual process, it’s like trying to push a car up a cliff, any attempt to withdraw during the process means the car sliding back to the foot of the cliff. The same way it is for women, women gradually build up romantic emotions till it reaches the peak call orgasm, any breach or negative action can ruin all the effort and quench all her eagerness within a second. So whenever a couple is trying to build the momentum of intimacy, a bad kisser will always ruin the day, because is going to be a turn off, at the end of the day, the woman might end up pretending, and having sex just for the sake of the husband even when she’s boiling inside. So, you can be sure that a woman who knows her onions in the act of kissing might never enjoy sex with a bad kisser, and because a sexually frustrated woman can never make a happy marriage, having a marriage full of turbulence like I earlier mentioned becomes inevitable. Even though, most immature men who haven’t learnt the act and beauty of taking it slow and steady during lovemaking want things to happen fast, to them and the matured ones, a bad kisser is also a turn off and a minus to the level of expected ecstasy. Kissing is a delicate way to show deep expression of love, it’s a sign of vulnerability, a very important ingredient of a stable relationship and marriage, kissing is a sign of saying I give you my all, I have nothing else to hide, I’m not holding anything back. Apart from the fact that it shows deep affection, its one romantic act that can be expressed intimately and openly at the same time. It is no doubt that kissing has taken the back stage in many homes especially in some part of the world where cultural, moral and religious views are ignorantly taken to the extreme. It’s a common notion that African men are particularly and naturally unromantic except he’s being compelled to, but it’s also a known fact that when he wants to be romantic, he’s good at it, and does his job very well. Another critical point is the ignorant nature of most women, not knowing what she want, clueless of how to express herself or ask for what she want, even when she knows it and the fear of being labeled “loose” is another reason for holding back the beautiful, nature behind the act of kissing. A research shows that it is possible for men to ejaculate through kissing, women can also achieve orgasm through the act of kissing, the enzymes released during this act can also help to promote bonding between couples, kissing is a simple act that could help to bring back the spark in your marriage within minutes. Whether the last time you kissed was when the pastor said you may kiss the bride on your wedding day, or you left the romantic act of kissing at the hotel where you had your honeymoon, it is never too late to start allover again.  Understanding of the fact that you are missing so much by not kissing and making effort to rekindle the loss passion for kissing will help your marriage. Having understood how important kissing is, it will be necessary to join our workshop on kissing. It doesn’t matter whether you or/and your spouse are bad kissers, or you don’t even understand the tricks and styles of being a good kisser, whether you have never kissed before does not matter and your level of ignorance is immaterial, by the end of this workshop, you can say good bye to a boring sex life, and dry kissing skills and start kissing like a pro! (To register for the kissing workshop, visit: www.instituteofcounselingng.org)

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ARE YOU INTIMIDATING?

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“ I never knew you are this warm, nice, friendly… blablabla….” Are you one of the people that often get that? You know you are a very nice, warm and friendly person, but people just judge you, size you up or even hate you without knowing the real you. Most time you didn’t offend them, in fact you haven’t utter a word to them, they just feel kilokanseleyi, is she the only one, who does she think she. Can you identify with this kind of situation? I might not understand how this feel for you, but i can relate with this circumstances because I’m actually there. Sometimes i tried to reduce myself just to convince them I’m not whom they think i am, at times i just keep quiet so they wont think I’m trying to make my opinion count. Even with all of these, they still feel why is she keeping quiet. There are few people like this, people judge you wrongly at the first encounter. Sometimes you might even begin to worry about yourself, you might think you have attitude problem, if care is not taken, these opinions can reduce you to nothing and make prevent you from achieving your life objectives. Wonder why people don’t get to know you before passing their judgmental remarks? Read up this article, then you find out you are not the problem but them. I have never seen an article that has perfect answers to so many questions. You might want to read along if you are interested in finding out why people get the wrong signal.Have you ever gone somewhere and not exactly blend in…? It’s more than what you decided to wear that seems like an anomaly. People behave a certain way. You observe this many times at different social scenes. Nobody will approach you aside from a little “hi” and a courteous fake smile. 1. You look unapproachable, or give off that energy that says something completely opposite of the way you are. Maybe it’s your clothing, maybe it’s a “don’t fuck with me” attitude displayed in your facial expressions, or maybe it’s just like the animal kingdom and your composure. The alpha male or alpha female struts in and all the other animals take notice and make a mental note to stay the fuck away. 2. You have confirmation: Your friends didn’t like you originally, they told you they didn’t, but now that they know you, you’re really not that bad. People refuse to make eye contact with you for long periods; they look away and keep their glances short. 3. You have an aggressive and confrontational demeanor. You don’t start fights, but you’re known to assert yourself when necessary. You say what you mean and you mean what you say. 4. You’re a nonconformist, you’re not afraid to say “No.” You know what you want and what you don’t want. You don’t follow the crowd. 5. You move heaven and earth to make things happen. You don’t settle for anything less than what you had planned. When shit goes downhill you don’t take it easy. You have to have it all. For some reason people don’t like go-getters, they’re seen as opportunists or too selfish. 6. You have had that one super nice acquaintance that secretly hates you but showers you with tons of compliments, plays with your hair, and a lot of other deceitful behavior. You know what’s up, but it’s easier to just be cordial because you’ve been considered being a bitch for too long on one too many occasions. This person is the first person to try to make you feel bad when you’re feeling vulnerable and will use your situation to their own insecure advantage. 7. People misunderstand you. You don’t set out to offend anyone but at the same time you don’t care what people think. Your ideas, beliefs and shared posts usually range from crazy to bat-shit crazy, extreme even. You don’t need anyone to validate your authenticity, you just continue being yourself. If anyone has a problem they can remove themselves from your life. Let’s face it; social networking has brought on more judgments. 8. You’re okay with being alone and it’s obvious that you enjoy your own company. Your circles start off small and remain small. Society drives people to want other’s acceptance, we’re bred that way. To be liked is desired more than the desire to be successful. When you seek out social acceptance all the time it’s like sleeping with partner after partner. You give away little pieces of yourself each time until there’s nothing left. But in this case, you don’t mind being alone. 9. You walk into a room and know immediately how people feel about you. It’s all in their eyes, not only do they avoid eye contact but when they do make eye contact, it’s not a welcoming and pleasant look. Every fiber of your being tells you who you should be careful with because they don’t have the best intentions. You’ve never done anything to this person yet your gut feels negatively when you’re near them. This is the person who will like+comment on your posts on FB and when you see them in real life they will say hi and avoid you, walk past you and act like you’re not even there. You’re under their skin even though you’re unsure why regardless of how nice you are to them. What do you do in this situation? follow the crowd, change whom you are because they got it wrong, wallow in self pity, allow them lower your self esteem? NO….. TC Mark says “Don’t Change; kill them with Kindness anyway”.

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IS IT A SIN TO SUCK MY WIFE?

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Dr. Tolu, this is the 3rd time i’m posting this question, please help me to post now. I want to suck my wife but she said no insisting its against God’s will. I want to know if its a sin to suck ones wife, Is it ok to suck each other in a christian home. I noticed that many christian people who are married do suck each other. I used to do it too and i think my wife will like it if she experienced it, how do i convince her, or should i just forget about it if its a sin?

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TIWA/TUNJI SAGA, WHAT LESSON?

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As much as i tried to avoid discussing other people’s business, i actually think we can learn one or two lessons from the Tiwa/Tunji story. Im sure most of us have read the story online and also listened to Tiwa’s video interview. Do you think she married for the wrong reasons, probably out of pity because she felt she owed Tunji one? Or you think they were truly compatible? What is your opinion about couples having a joint business? The questions can go on and on, but what do you think about this whole saga, are there lessons to be learnt?

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HOW TO CARESS

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The power of touch in establishing and maintaining intimacy between two people cannot be overemphasized. caressing is a very good way to get connected emotionally, though physically, it connects souls together. The feelings of being wanted and important at the same time are conveyed through caressing. Apart from the fact that its a good way to prepare the mind for the act of lovemaking, it also promotes bonding. Especially for the women, caressing can serve as a mean of reassuring her of how much you love and care, it can also prepare her mind towards a romantic evening of lovemaking with her husband. Sex is great but its important to know and understand that most people not all won’t ever reach the sex portion if it weren’t for the sensual caresses that led to that point. When in a relationship where both people are emotionally and physically attracted to each other, it is important to show affection. There are several ways to do this, but caressing may be the most effective. To caress someone is to show them how you care for them, how special they are, and a simple way of communicating love or strong liking. How to caress is very important, and your significant other will appreciate it if done properly. In our rush to reach our goals, we often times forget how we got there. Later in the relationship, those little things get completely forgotten because the goal has already been reached. So if you want to bring back the spark back in your relationship and marriage, bring back the sensual caresses. The soft touch at the nape of the neck. The slight caress with your fingers across a man’s wrist. A man moving his fingers ever so gently up a woman’s leg. The soft touch on a man’s check right before a kiss. The light touch on a woman’s lower back arch as you hold a door open for her. Moving a wisp of hair away from someone’s forehead while looking passionately into their eyes. Without these sensual caresses, the act of love making just becomes boring and inconsequential. We must treat our partners similar to the way we treat a car. You would never drive your car without warming it up or making sure it has its proper oil change. Otherwise the car wouldn’t act as good as you would want it. In some cases, the car would actually conk out on you in the middle of the road. Well your partner if not handled in the right way, can also conk out. Sensual caresses will get you to where you want to go! 1. Caressing does not just mean physical contact. In fact, a very seductive form of caressing can be done with the eyes. Taking a long and deep look into your partner’s eyes will make them feel special, and will most likely lead to them wanting to be caressed by you… or they may want to caress you. 2. An easy way to begin caressing someone is through a hug. Rub their back affectionately, and slowly make your way to their shoulders. There, use your fingers to gently run across their skin, then up and down their arms. 3. Look into their eyes (do not glance away), and cup their face with one of your hands. 4. Use your thumbs to caress their cheeks. Next, use your index finger to softly touch their lips. From here, you can feel other parts of their face, and use both hands if they seem to enjoy that. 5. Another way to caress your partner has to do with just hands. You can glide your fingers across their palms and through their fingers, and can also do this as though it was tickling. The great thing about this is that it can be done in public. No, it is not the disgusting thing people call “hand sex”, it is simply caressing your partner’s hands. 6. You can also hold him/her from the back when he/she is not expecting it, gently rubbing your front against your partners back while holding or rubbing their arms is a very good way of caressing. 7. Leg touch is another way of caressing. Especially when you are among other people sitting around a table, maybe during family dinner or eat out time with friends, you both can gently pull your shoes and touch each others legs/foot without others noticing.

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YOUR WIFE/HUSBAND COULD BE HERE!

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  Good Day. Using this medium to introduce Intimate Matchmaking to you. A result oriented matchmaking services carried out with integrity and the fear of God. With 75% success rate, we don’t give false hope but do our best to bridge the gap between you and your soulmate. We are tested and trusted and can boldly say we are the most reliable hand in the field of matchmaking in Africa. If you are interested in our services or any of our clients listed below, you can reach us at our office: Intimacy Center 135 Ogunlana Drive Surulere Lagos. Call: 08184575377 or Simply register at: www.intimatematchmaking.com. Here are the list of our clients for today: 1. Chioma is a 31 yrs old graduate of Nursing from IMO state, a nurse/midwife and based in lagos, she’s very single and focused. Chioma wants a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. 3. Aminat is 34 yrs from Ogun state,a small scale retail business owner based in Lagos. She’s not too keen about religion but will prefer a Muslim partner that is ready to settle down. 4. Dotun is a 36 yrs old Yoruba guy, a banker and outgoing person, he wants a Yoruba lady not more than 30. She must be outspoken and friendly. 5. Wasiu is 33yrs from Ogun state, a civil servant and devoted Muslim. He needs a serious Muslim lady for relationship that will lead to marriage, she must have something doing and be ready to settle down asap. 6. Kayode is 53, single due to heartbreak, and has never being married before. He’s an engineering that can take his woman to the world. The lady must be young, creamy, very born again, not too fat and Yoruba. 7. Kunle is 33yrs old, he hails from kogi state. A Business man that enjoy ling live and praying hard as well. He needs a very prayerful and outgoing lady, preferably Yoruba. She must be disciplined and from a good home. 8. Alhaji Sadiq is 65, fears God and love to help humanity. A philanthropist who needs a woman who is ready to be his friend, partner and wife at the same time. She must be a very God fearing Muslim and be good at managing money in billions.

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YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY

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  My encounter these few weeks got me thinking….. I have met people who are well put together, good jobs, good looks, good health or so it seems. They seems to have everything going on well for them. People around them could even be envying them and they themselves haven’t come to the realization of the fact that they needed help. But talking to these people, I saw a lot of unresolved emotional issues that can hinder living life to the fullest, so many baggage that are left unattended to and numerous repressed materials that were ignored. speaking from a Counselor’s angle, I’m beginning to see that a lot of people need help in our society. So many bitterness, bottled up emotions and unresolved issue that can hinder people from living life to the fullest or being the best they can. A lot of people are emotionally battered and mentally disturbed, yet they carry on as if all is well. We need to cultivate the habit of talking to a counselor in this part of the world. Symptoms of emotional, sexual, Relationship, marital or any issue that takes your peace away from you should be treated like that of chronic illness. Life is too short to be lived in bitterness and pretense, you deserve to be happy and living life to the fullest should not be compromised. Locate a Counselor/Therapist around you today, you need one to rediscover yourself and make the best of your life. My 10 Kobo. Have a beautiful week ahead. ‪#‎lovedoctorwithadifference‬ ‪#‎iamasextherapist‬ ‪#‎tolustenkobo‬. You can schedule appointment with me on 08184575377 or http://instantcounseling.net/service/

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