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AFRICAN APHRODISIACS (KAYANMATA) SCIENCE OR MYTH?

Introduction  The concept of sex and sexuality has some form of sacredness that accompanies it across different human societies including Africa and as such, when some principles guiding it are violated, such violations are referred to as taboos (Okechi, 2018). However, many of these beliefs and practices some of which are superstitious have been eroded by globalization consequently changing the narrative when it comes to discussions centered on sex and sexual relationships (Okechi, 2018). The …

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HOW GENDER IDENTITY AFFECTS LOVE LANGUAGES

Introduction A recent research shows that there are about a hundred gender identities in the world, but this article is concerned with straigh people who are in heterosexual relationships. Recent discovery in my practice as a sex therapist and couples counselor have shown alot of struggles amongs couples in sexless marriages, the truth is that we do not need long sessions to find out why this issue is so common in Africa, this is because …

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Simple tips for giving a great head

1. Be sure you’re dealing with a hygienic person. 2. Consider this an act of pleasure on its own not necessarily a prerequisite for penetration. 3. Be sure you’re on the same page with your partner. 4. Make up your mind to get pleasure from giving, don’t make it look unpleasant to you or you’re just doing it for her. 5. Get comfortable with bodily fluid and natural vagina smell. 6. It’s okay to ask …

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WHY YOU’RE SINGLE AGAINST YOUR WISH

Introduction: Tongues have started wailing, people are already looking at you whenever you are passing, your parents are on your case, and it’s looking as if singleness is now sickness. You don’t seem to be happy anymore and it’s as if every other good thing in your life does not count, to you, all you need to be fulfilled is to settle down and get a man. You look at yourself in the mirror and …

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SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION

SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION: It is the consistent, recurring difficulty experienced by an individual during any phase of the sexual cycle that prevents the individual or couple from experiencing satisfaction from the sexual activity. In other words, when anything hinders an individual from experiencing full sexual satisfaction, is a form of sexual dysfunction. A condition is said to be a dysfunction when it has been going on consistently for six months and also affects one’s functionality, productivity, …

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50 FUN FACTS ABOUT KISSING

Kissing can make or mar your relationship/marriage Most of the big issues couples are struggling with in their marriages started with just a little act of ignorance. marriage can be full of nagging and turbulence because a poor kisser marries a good kisser-  Kissing is not the only step during the act of lovemaking Women does not speedily build up romantic emotions till it reaches the peak call orgasm breach of love making process can …

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HOW TO TOAST A WOMAN

As popular as dating websites are, every year a minimum of one thousand new dating website is being created worldwide. Online dating statistics shows that 20% of those in committed relationship began online and 7% of marriages in 2015 were between couples that met on a dating website. Why is it that we have just 7% of marriages? This statistics shows that against popular belief, people still need one on one interaction to get to …

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POSSIBLE REMEDIES FOR PREMATURE EJACULATION

As earlier stated, research have shown that 95% of premature ejaculation problem is psychological while 5% is physiologically related; hence the focus on dealing with the psychological factors. Below are some of the possible remedies for premature ejaculation; Using withdrawal method. As much as we are aware that some women don’t reach orgasm quickly like men do, it is important for men to master the art of foreplay to prolong their erection. Gone are the …

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MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT PREMATURE EJACULATION

Introduction Premature ejaculation is a form of sexual dysfunction and this could be seen in men and women. For women it could be pain during sex, orgasmic issues, sustenance of orgasm, low libido and the likes. For men, it could be erectile problem, ejaculation disorder, libido disorder, and other dysfunctions. Premature ejaculation happens when the man ejaculates when he doesn’t want to or when his partner doesn’t want him to. It is also the incapacity …

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THE PROS AND CONS OF SHOWER SEX

In Nigeria, there is no statistics of how many people get married out of love, thus majority of people get married for the wrong reasons which leads to unhappiness. In this part of the world, couples fail to understand that love is a gift; hence they don’t include it on their scale of preference while preparing to go into a relationship. We tend to get carried away with other things forgetting that romance is the …

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