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ATTRIBUTES OF FRIENDSHIP

I will like to talk about 5 attributes your friendship or relationships must have. We all know that when two people are not sincere with themselves, the quality of friendship decreases frantically. Here are my top 5: 1. Sincerity Vs Insincerity The moment you are lying often about minor daily activities, your friend may become uncomfortable with you. Lying has become very common with people and this can be a turn off if you are not watchful. 2. Pretense vs Realness For some people, living …

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LET HER BE THE WOMAN

As unedifying as it sounds, i have to say this so we can understand the magnitude of the problem facing religious leader’s marriages… I have counseled G.O who is addicted to masturbation because mama didn’t show interest for 30 months, yes, you heard me, 30 months. I’ve been able to speak in churches where minister’s wife threatened to work out of her marriage as a result of poor sex life, and another cheating with her …

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THE PICTURE IN MY HEAD

Ofure and I have been married for three years; it was and still is a marriage of willing bed fellows. I had known Ofure all my life but I really met her four years ago, crazy right? Well we grew up together, played together and even went to the same schools- primary, secondary and tertiary, but then she was just another annoying ugly girl. While we were very little, I remember I used to tease …

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WOMB-MAN

“Don’t open the door for me, i can do it myself , I’m not weak or arm less” What an irony, we want to be treated like a queen but dont want to be called a lady. BROKENNESS…I had no deep knowledge of this word until very, very recently, you would be surprised how much knowledge you can unveil in a word if and when you think deeply enough about it. The dictionary defines ‘broken’ …

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THE BEST PLACE TO GET A GOOD WIFE IS IN A MATCHMAKER’S OFFICE.

  You might disagreed with me when I talked about chasing a good woman instead of chasing money, but have you ever considered the life of a rich man with a bad wife? Is there any peace of mind or stable life for a man who is married to a troublesome woman? Your marriage is your life. To some extent, getting it wrong/right determines how the journey of your life will end. In my years …

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SEXUAL FETISH

SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …

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I’M NOT ENJOYING MY MARRIAGE, WHAT DO I DO?

I  got married 15years ago,ever since i have not enjoyed marriage for one month except during Ramadan. I’m blessed with 3 kids in this marriage though i wouldn’t have had up to 3 kids because of the situation in the marriage, but there are more stories on that but i thank God for giving them to me.  My problem is that my husband has been having series of extra marital affairs since we got married, …

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SHOULD I MARRY HER?

Dear Madam Tolu. I have something burning on my mind which I like to discuss with you ma.I’ve this lady that I love so much and she loves me too in returns. However she is a mother of two kids, her husband had problems and these problems eventually lead them to separation.In the first place, I used to advice her before she walk up to me one day that she developed feelings for me of which …

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HOW TO BE A BETTER LOVER IN BED

HOW TO BE A BETTE LOVER IN BED Someone once said that men are from Mars while women are from Pluto. When it comes to sexual satisfaction, getting it right with women could be tiresome for some men who are selfish when it comes to bedmatics. Most of the time arousal comes before desire for women and the opposite is the case for most men, this contradictions can create a huge gap if not well …

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