“Don’t open the door for me, i can do it myself , I’m not weak or arm less” What an irony, we want to be treated like a queen but dont want to be called a lady. BROKENNESS…I had no deep knowledge of this word until very, very recently, you would be surprised how much knowledge you can unveil in a word if and when you think deeply enough about it. The dictionary defines ‘broken’ …
You might disagreed with me when I talked about chasing a good woman instead of chasing money, but have you ever considered the life of a rich man with a bad wife? Is there any peace of mind or stable life for a man who is married to a troublesome woman? Your marriage is your life. To some extent, getting it wrong/right determines how the journey of your life will end. In my years …
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“There are more women than men” a very common statement among young men these days, some will even go as far as quoting Isaiah 4:1, but i can categorically tell you that, the number of men of marriageable age are currently more than those of women, even here in Nigeria. The reason why men seems to be more than men is because of the economic situation, the men who are due for marriage are not …
SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …
My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimacyclinic.org (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …
I got married 15years ago,ever since i have not enjoyed marriage for one month except during Ramadan. I’m blessed with 3 kids in this marriage though i wouldn’t have had up to 3 kids because of the situation in the marriage, but there are more stories on that but i thank God for giving them to me. My problem is that my husband has been having series of extra marital affairs since we got married, …
I am married with kids.my husband is an amazing dad and very caring.we are very good friends but we are not intimate,we have been married for about 5years now and we have not french kissed for 3years now. At the beginning of our marriage,he was really cheating on me,which i found out a number of times but i stood by him.One day,i ran into my childhood sweetheart and we exchanged numbers, we started chatting on old …
Good morning Dr. Tolu. The last time my husband touched me was nine months ago before i put to bed, I put to bed five months ago and up till today he has never touched me. When I had my first child, he couldn’t even wait for me to recover before demanding for sex, but this time around, I’m just living with him like a room mate. He doesn’t even come close to me. I’m …
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