Even though we don’t like talking about the subject of sex in this part of the world, it is a very crucial aspect of marriage that cannot be over emphasized. Research shows that the opposite of the intensity of labor pain is the intensity of sexual pleasure, meaning as labor pain is believed to be the highest level of pain, so is sex is believed to be the highest level of pleasure. Just like i …
Someone wrote this on Goodtherapy.com: Hi. I’m not sure how to say this so I’ll just say it. I masturbate at least twice a day. Whenever I finish, I feel a profound sense of shame about it and I feel terrible for like an hour. Sometimes the shame even ruins my day. Everything I’ve read says masturbation is normal for guys, yet I can’t get past these feelings of shame and self-hatred. I feel like …
DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH TWO PENISES AND VAGINAS? WILL YOU LIKE TO SHARE WITH US IF YOU HAVE SEEN OR KNOW ANYONE LIKE THAT? READ ON: The Man With Two Penises Meets The Woman With A ‘Double-Vagina’ Penises. Every man’s got one, but it’s not everyday you meet someone hiding TWO sexual organs tucked between their legs. Juan Baptista dos Santos, born in 1843 in Portugal, was one such rare specimen. The …
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THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA I recently counseled a young couple, they were separated and decided to come for counseling after the guy attempted suicide. The wife left with their two kids and the man became lonely and miserable. It took the intervention of neighbors and friends to rescue him, this is not moonlight story but reality. I’m sure the typical African man reading this will say, “ Is he alright ‘women …
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As unedifying as it sounds, i have to say this so we can understand the magnitude of the problem facing religious leader’s marriages… I have counseled G.O who is addicted to masturbation because mama didn’t show interest for 30 months, yes, you heard me, 30 months. I’ve been able to speak in churches where minister’s wife threatened to work out of her marriage as a result of poor sex life, and another cheating with her …
SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …
My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimacyclinic.org (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …
Sex Facts That Will Blow Your Mind Did you know that the clitoris is the only bodily organ that exists solely for sexual pleasure? And blue balls isn’t just a term made up by horny (and disgruntled) teenage boys? It’s actually a real problem! Fact: The world’s largest recorded penis belongs to 41-year-old New Yorker Jonah Falcon, whose appendage measures 9.5 inches flaccid and 13.5 inches erect. Fact: The person on top is …
Good morning Dr. Tolu. The last time my husband touched me was nine months ago before i put to bed, I put to bed five months ago and up till today he has never touched me. When I had my first child, he couldn’t even wait for me to recover before demanding for sex, but this time around, I’m just living with him like a room mate. He doesn’t even come close to me. I’m …
Understanding your wife will help you solve a lot of problem in your marriage, most men are ignorant of the way women are wired and this has resulted into a lot of troubles that is currently drifting their marriage apart. understanding her will help you to celebrate and appreciate your differences instead of fighting over it, in fact understanding these basic facts about your woman means more sex in the long run. Romance doesn’t come …
