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MYTHS ABOUT SEX

There are so many lies that we have been told over the years about sex, things that are not true that we have accepted believing them to the extent that they are affecting the way we see sex. Especially in an environment where cultural and religious conditioning is deep. Here are a few myths about sex: 1. Myth: Everyone is supposed to have great sex all the time. Reality: There is no one-size-fits-all definition of …

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HOW GENDER IDENTITY AFFECTS LOVE LANGUAGES

Introduction A recent research shows that there are about a hundred gender identities in the world, but this article is concerned with straigh people who are in heterosexual relationships. Recent discovery in my practice as a sex therapist and couples counselor have shown alot of struggles amongs couples in sexless marriages, the truth is that we do not need long sessions to find out why this issue is so common in Africa, this is because …

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I CHOOSE TO WRITE ABOUT VEE

#BBNAIJA is a very psychological show, I watch mostly to study the power play and interrelationship dynamics (Laycon changed that this year, though). Being a housemate requires a high level of emotional intelligence and effective cognitive skills. Some are lucky to be equipped with these skills during childhood. Let me explain… How do you explain telling a child to eat the food presented to her at a function, then beat her up while getting home …

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THE BENEFITS OF KISSING

A kiss, being pleasurable and fun, is also an important activity, especially to married couples and those that are in a relationship. Often times, a kiss is deemed a perfect gesture when no amount of words could express one’s feelings. Kisses on specific body parts have different specific meanings. Moreover, expressing oneself can also be interpreted through different kissing styles. A kiss may also be an act of respect rather than an endearment. For almost …

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