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FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION IN NIGERIA

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Unfortunately, according to New York Times, 2 million additional cases of Female Genital Mutilation may occur over the next decade as a result of Covid 19. COVID-19 has shuttered schools and thereby disrupting programs that help protect girls from this harmful practice. FGM is widely practiced in Nigeria, and with its large population, Nigeria has the highest absolute number of cases of FGM in the world, accounting for about one-quarter of the estimated 115–130 million …

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SOLVING THE PUZZLE OF ORGASM

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I get various questions on the topic, of orgasm. People have so many unanswered questions on their heads about the term orgasm, especially in this part of the world, where there is a very high level of ignorance. Some people have never heard of it, some heard and don’t really understand what it means and so many have never experienced it. In fact, some men argued that women are not meant to enjoy sex, sex …

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HOW GENDER IDENTITY AFFECTS LOVE LANGUAGES

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Introduction A recent research shows that there are about a hundred gender identities in the world, but this article is concerned with straigh people who are in heterosexual relationships. Recent discovery in my practice as a sex therapist and couples counselor have shown alot of struggles amongs couples in sexless marriages, the truth is that we do not need long sessions to find out why this issue is so common in Africa, this is because …

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VALENTINE DEPRESSION, SHOULD YOU BE TALKING TO A THERAPIST?

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Even though valentine’s season is expected to be the season of love when everyone is happy and excited expressing their undying affection to the ones they love, surprisingly, some people might be going through what seems to be one of the worst seasons of their lives during valentine. As much as no one is expected to cut short their happiness because of others, when it comes to valentine, the level of insensitivity to other people’s …

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HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF

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People makes resolutions at the beginning of every new year; Plans on dos and don’ts, dreams and aspirations, targets and goals etc. Infact goal setting is usually a popular phrase at the beginning of the year. All these are good but the truth is that you cannot give what you do not have. You are the carrier of your dreams, the engine house that drives your ambition and the container that carries your aspiration, if …

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Simple tips for giving a great head

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1. Be sure you’re dealing with a hygienic person. 2. Consider this an act of pleasure on its own not necessarily a prerequisite for penetration. 3. Be sure you’re on the same page with your partner. 4. Make up your mind to get pleasure from giving, don’t make it look unpleasant to you or you’re just doing it for her. 5. Get comfortable with bodily fluid and natural vagina smell. 6. It’s okay to ask …

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WHAT HAS AGE GOT TO DO WITH THIS?

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Age is one of the factors that need to be considered when choosing a life partner especially in this part of the world, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the success of such a relationship depends on the age factor. If we say age is just a number, we won’t be far from the truth, and if we also say it matters, it’s not false as well. Research shows that women who marrieds men who …

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WHY YOU’RE SINGLE AGAINST YOUR WISH

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Introduction: Tongues have started wailing, people are already looking at you whenever you are passing, your parents are on your case, and it’s looking as if singleness is now sickness. You don’t seem to be happy anymore and it’s as if every other good thing in your life does not count, to you, all you need to be fulfilled is to settle down and get a man. You look at yourself in the mirror and …

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POSSIBLE REASONS YOU COULD BE STRUGGLING WITH MONOGAMY

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It is always said that men are polygamous in nature, a myth that most people have come to believe and adapted as their realities. According to research, there are more than fifty (50) different types of non-monogamous relationships being practiced, a situation where people could choose to be in a relationship with more than one partner. Such as being in a financial relationship with one partner, in an emotional relationship with another, and a sexual …

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HOW TO KNOW IF SOMEONE IS INTO YOU

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People tend to walk into my office asking questions like ‘Dr. Tolu how do I know if my partner loves me?’ or perhaps you are one that likes to keep your money away from your partner especially from men to women saying you will like to test her and be sure she doesn’t love you because of money. All these and many more do not guarantee someone’s love for you. The first thing I tell …

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