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Please help me, my husband always want to make love to me, sometimes three times in a day. I’m tired and frustrated, even during my monthly period, he will still do it, I’ve totally lost interest in sex due to this his attitude, sometimes I bleed after he makes love to me, he’s a good man but this particular problem is making me to plan to leave him. As I speak now, my life is miserable, what can I do please?

Blow By Blow How To Give a Blow Job Simple Tips to Blow His Mind and Knock His Socks Off in the sack   How confident are YOU with your oral loving skills? Would you say, without hesitation, that you are a rockin’ sex kitten and you make your man’s eyes roll into the back of his head every time?   What do you think HE’D say?   Not so sure? Yeah, I get it. Read on…   There are plenty of ladies out there that are just kind of flying blindly when it comes to giving oral sex and plenty of guys who don’t tell them because they’re just so happy to be getting any at all!   Why not be SURE that you’re pleasing your man? You can definitely learn EVERYTHING (and I DO mean everything!) you need to know about giving mind- and body-blowing oral sex with the very hot guide Blow by Blow – trust me, once you read this you won’t want to wait to try out what you’ve learned!     As a sex columnist, the NUMBER ONE question I get from women is how to perform oral sex that will knock a man’s socks off… And the number one COMPLAINT I get from men is that their women don’t know what they’re doing “downtown.” Well, I’m going to share some simple tips you need to know that will keep your man worshipping the sex goddess that you are!     ENJOY WHAT YOU’RE DOING. This is the biggest one, ladies. Men say it’s hard to enjoy themselves when their lady seems bored, in a hurry or unsure how to give a blowjob. Can you blame him? This is his most sensitive part of his body that he’s entrusting… TO YOUR MOUTH! This is your chance to give pleasure to your man.   Think of this as one of the most passionate gifts you can give to him. So be enthusiastic about it! It’s time you let that inner sex kitten out and play. Be powerful, strong and sexy. Look at him while you’re pleasuring him, enjoy the fact that right at this moment, he’d hand over the keys to the castle. This is a powerful act for a woman and the time when a man is at his most vulnerable. Take your time, tease that naughty boy. Savor it.     THE WETTER, THE BETTER. Guys agree. The more saliva you use, the more enjoyable. Try and keep him very moist from the tip on down. This is not a time to act like Bree on “Desperate Housewives” and be anally neat. Get messy. Keep a glass of water on the nightstand. Use lubricant if you need to (although that that can taste like nasty old tires!) or experiment with some fun foods, like whipped cream or a lukewarm tea. Remember, you are simulating a very warm moist place… LEND A HELPING HAND. Or two. Don’t be afraid to use your hands. In fact, your hand should be a nice continuation of your mouth. Even feel free to add a gentle twist of the wrist to add to the pleasure. Think about all that pleasure that can come from a VARIETY of sensations. You need to combine your mouth, lips, tongue and hands. That beautiful combination of flickering tongue, moist lips, suctions, licking, wet hands, twists and more can send your man over the edge… BE BALLSY. The testicles are your friends, ladies. Treat them as such. Greet them warmly. One of the top complaints I hear from men is that their female counterparts would forget that they are a package deal. Three’s Company. Caress them with your spare hand tenderly, tickle and tease. REMEMBER WHAT YOU’RE HANDLING. There’s fine line between being firm and strangulation. Be mindful of the amount of pressure you’re using. Try and think what you would like, were the tables turned. You’re not strangling a dead chicken. NO TEETH. Seriously? Do I have to tell you this? The guys said YEAH I DO have to, because ladies out there are still playing human grater. YIKES! Keep the teeth outta sight. Sure some men like a VERY little sensation of teeth, but NOT many and if you aren’t really good at what you’re doing yet, then don’t scare the poor man. Keep those puppies away from him.   DON’T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR COMMENTS. Don’t just hope for the best. If your man doesn’t seem to be over the moon – what? Is he in a coma? – then feel free to ask him if there is anything you could improve on. The whole idea is to give pleasure, as I’m SURE he will be doing in return. Communication can only make it better.    

  Am in love with my cousin and we have both had a blood oath, but now she says that we are done because she thinks that we cant work. The problem is that I can’t stop loving her no matter what I do or how hard I tried, what should i do please?

    A few years ago, my husband lost his job. Now he is so poor that he cannot feed the family. I am the one feeding him and our children with the little money which I make from my business. I sell drinks and pepper soup. One of my customers is a managing director of one big company. So I told him about my husband. I begged him to give my husband a job in his company. The man accepted to employ my husband. It is a very good job. My husband will be given a car and a salary of #300,000 monthly. But the man said he will employ my husband under one condition: I must have sex with him. He said if I agree to sleep with him just once only, he will employ my husband instantly but I should not tell my husband that he will sleep with me; we should just do it secretly and then he will employ my husband. He has already prepared my husband’s employment letter. In fact in my presence in his office, he told other staff that my husband will start working there soon. SHOULD I AGREE TO SLEEP WITH HIM? Note that my husband is very poor and jobless; and u know opportunity comes but once. Should I just sleep with this man in order to remove poverty from my husband’s life? I need your advice pls. Am in a tight corner now.

  Dr. Tolu, please help me, my husband is a sex addict,before we got married, we use to make love like nine times in a day, yes nine times, now we are married with two kids and he still want it like that,sometimes he wouldn’t even mind if the kids are around, it has become a big issue that I have to open up to his family who came to settle the issue, but to my surprise he was begging them that they should please make it four times per day. I wasn’t complaining b4, but I though he will outgrow it when he start having responsibilities but I’m surprised that he didn’t change, nothing matters to him except sex,I’m unhappy and sick now, what do I do?

  And I got a call this morning, Dr. Tolu do you people still do Intimate Errands? I was quick to say yes, we are still in the business of building homes and mending relationships and we use every avenue available to us to achieve this. Intimate Errands is beyond sending and receiving gifts, its a whole lot of package and the emotional impact is unquantifiable. You may not understand, let me tell you what happened in few of our errands: ** She was based in Germany and husband in Lagos, hes a wealthy man and having girls around is not a problem, they were having serious issues after three kids and working on their divorce, then on his birthday i got a call from her. “A friend just told me you do surprise packages, i just want to send something to my husband because of his children, i dont know if he will accept it or not, just drop there if he didn’t accept” and that was all! We delivered just a birthday cake, a bottle of wine and a beautiful card, of course, with our highly touching poem as we normally do. We typed the poem and enveloped it neatly only to be opened in his presence. To cut the long story short, we were only able to track him around 12 noon at his place of work, we deliver in a grand style like we normally do. He was so agitated to know the sender, and of course that’s our little secret we won’t leak until the end of the delivery, by the time we mentioned the wife’s name as the sender, he bursted into tears, ” i never knew she still loved me” he said…. Anyway, the wife visited two weeks later and she met a range rover tied with ribbon to surprise her, nobody talked about the divorce anymore, today the marriage is doing well. ** Hes based in Enugu and she in Port Harcourt, they dated for about 2 years and was planning to take it to the next level when he started developing cold feet, believing she has wasted her time enough, she withdrew all the emotional investments and was prepared to meet another man. So, for six months, they talked for just about 3 times, and to them, the relationship is as good as dead, then it was her birthday. At this point, he was also planning to settle down but couldn’t find anyone to replace her. So, he called me, ma, can you deliver an errands to my girlfriend in Port Harcourt, in fact i dont know if we are still dating, but just let me try. We deliver in our usual emotional way and 6 months later, they got married. I will be giving you more true life stories about Intimate Errands as days goes by. Intimate Errands is beyond sending gifts, it mends home, clear piled up emotional issues, says the unspoken and put smile on peoples faces. I would have dropped this service because of my busy schedule, but when i though a bout its impact, the life that needs to be touched, i concluded, it’s worth the stress. Valentine is just around the corner, dont crack your brain on how to propose, dont worry about how to say i still love you, lets just do it for you!