Someone wrote this on Goodtherapy.com: Hi. I’m not sure how to say this so I’ll just say it. I masturbate at least twice a day. Whenever I finish, I feel a profound sense of shame about it and I feel terrible for like an hour. Sometimes the shame even ruins my day. Everything I’ve read says masturbation is normal for guys, yet I can’t get past these feelings of shame and self-hatred. I feel like …
DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH TWO PENISES AND VAGINAS? WILL YOU LIKE TO SHARE WITH US IF YOU HAVE SEEN OR KNOW ANYONE LIKE THAT? READ ON: The Man With Two Penises Meets The Woman With A ‘Double-Vagina’ Penises. Every man’s got one, but it’s not everyday you meet someone hiding TWO sexual organs tucked between their legs. Juan Baptista dos Santos, born in 1843 in Portugal, was one such rare specimen. The …
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THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA I recently counseled a young couple, they were separated and decided to come for counseling after the guy attempted suicide. The wife left with their two kids and the man became lonely and miserable. It took the intervention of neighbors and friends to rescue him, this is not moonlight story but reality. I’m sure the typical African man reading this will say, “ Is he alright ‘women …
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As unedifying as it sounds, i have to say this so we can understand the magnitude of the problem facing religious leader’s marriages… I have counseled G.O who is addicted to masturbation because mama didn’t show interest for 30 months, yes, you heard me, 30 months. I’ve been able to speak in churches where minister’s wife threatened to work out of her marriage as a result of poor sex life, and another cheating with her …
THE POWER OF TOUCH Do you know the largest organ in the human body? Hazard a guess. What is the largest human organ? I could almost bet the majority of you will be wrong. The largest human organ is the skin. In a grown man, it covers about 19 square feet and weighs over 3.5kg. A piece of skin the size of a small coin contains more than 3 million cells, 100 to 340 sweat glands, 50 nerve …
SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …
My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimacyclinic.org (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …
Dr. Tolu, this is the 3rd time i’m posting this question, please help me to post now. I want to suck my wife but she said no insisting its against God’s will. I want to know if its a sin to suck ones wife, Is it ok to suck each other in a christian home. I noticed that many christian people who are married do suck each other. I used to do it too and …
The power of touch in establishing and maintaining intimacy between two people cannot be overemphasized. caressing is a very good way to get connected emotionally, though physically, it connects souls together. The feelings of being wanted and important at the same time are conveyed through caressing. Apart from the fact that its a good way to prepare the mind for the act of lovemaking, it also promotes bonding. Especially for the women, caressing can serve …
Introduction A lot of people are battling with premature ejaculation and so many has been deceived by various self acclaimed online solution providers, but knowing the truth that this condition is mostly psychological can help you to solve 50% of your problem. Follow me on this all revealing article about how you can help yourself out of this mess. What is premature ejaculation? Premature ejaculation is, well, ejaculation that is premature – that is it …
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