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VALENTINE DEPRESSION, SHOULD YOU BE TALKING TO A THERAPIST?

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Even though valentine’s season is expected to be the season of love when everyone is happy and excited expressing their undying affection to the ones they love, surprisingly, some people might be going through what seems to be one of the worst seasons of their lives during valentine. As much as no one is expected to cut short their happiness because of others, when it comes to valentine, the level of insensitivity to other people’s …

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POSSIBLE REASONS YOU COULD BE STRUGGLING WITH MONOGAMY

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It is always said that men are polygamous in nature, a myth that most people have come to believe and adapted as their realities. According to research, there are more than fifty (50) different types of non-monogamous relationships being practiced, a situation where people could choose to be in a relationship with more than one partner. Such as being in a financial relationship with one partner, in an emotional relationship with another, and a sexual …

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50 FUN FACTS ABOUT KISSING

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Kissing can make or mar your relationship/marriage Most of the big issues couples are struggling with in their marriages started with just a little act of ignorance. marriage can be full of nagging and turbulence because a poor kisser marries a good kisser-  Kissing is not the only step during the act of lovemaking Women does not speedily build up romantic emotions till it reaches the peak call orgasm breach of love making process can …

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THE PICTURE IN MY HEAD

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Ofure and I have been married for three years; it was and still is a marriage of willing bed fellows. I had known Ofure all my life but I really met her four years ago, crazy right? Well we grew up together, played together and even went to the same schools- primary, secondary and tertiary, but then she was just another annoying ugly girl. While we were very little, I remember I used to tease …

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THE POWER OF TOUCH

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THE POWER OF TOUCH Do you know the largest organ in the human body? Hazard a guess. What is the largest human organ? I could almost bet the majority of you will be wrong. The largest human organ is the skin. In a grown man, it covers about 19 square feet and weighs over 3.5kg. A piece of skin the size of a small coin contains more than 3 million cells, 100 to 340 sweat glands, 50 nerve …

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SEXUAL FETISH

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SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …

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PAINS DURING SEX

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My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimacyclinic.org (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …

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I’M NOT ENJOYING MY MARRIAGE, WHAT DO I DO?

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I  got married 15years ago,ever since i have not enjoyed marriage for one month except during Ramadan. I’m blessed with 3 kids in this marriage though i wouldn’t have had up to 3 kids because of the situation in the marriage, but there are more stories on that but i thank God for giving them to me.  My problem is that my husband has been having series of extra marital affairs since we got married, …

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ARE YOU INTIMIDATING?

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“ I never knew you are this warm, nice, friendly… blablabla….” Are you one of the people that often get that? You know you are a very nice, warm and friendly person, but people just judge you, size you up or even hate you without knowing the real you. Most time you didn’t offend them, in fact you haven’t utter a word to them, they just feel kilokanseleyi, is she the only one, who does …

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HOW TO CARESS

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The power of touch in establishing and maintaining intimacy between two people cannot be overemphasized. caressing is a very good way to get connected emotionally, though physically, it connects souls together. The feelings of being wanted and important at the same time are conveyed through caressing. Apart from the fact that its a good way to prepare the mind for the act of lovemaking, it also promotes bonding. Especially for the women, caressing can serve …

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