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LET HER BE THE WOMAN

As unedifying as it sounds, i have to say this so we can understand the magnitude of the problem facing religious leader’s marriages… I have counseled G.O who is addicted to masturbation because mama didn’t show interest for 30 months, yes, you heard me, 30 months. I’ve been able to speak in churches where minister’s wife threatened to work out of her marriage as a result of poor sex life, and another cheating with her …

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THE PICTURE IN MY HEAD

Ofure and I have been married for three years; it was and still is a marriage of willing bed fellows. I had known Ofure all my life but I really met her four years ago, crazy right? Well we grew up together, played together and even went to the same schools- primary, secondary and tertiary, but then she was just another annoying ugly girl. While we were very little, I remember I used to tease …

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THE POWER OF TOUCH

THE POWER OF TOUCH Do you know the largest organ in the human body? Hazard a guess. What is the largest human organ? I could almost bet the majority of you will be wrong. The largest human organ is the skin. In a grown man, it covers about 19 square feet and weighs over 3.5kg. A piece of skin the size of a small coin contains more than 3 million cells, 100 to 340 sweat glands, 50 nerve …

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SEXUAL FETISH

SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …

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PAINS DURING SEX

My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimacyclinic.org (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …

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I’M NOT ENJOYING MY MARRIAGE, WHAT DO I DO?

I  got married 15years ago,ever since i have not enjoyed marriage for one month except during Ramadan. I’m blessed with 3 kids in this marriage though i wouldn’t have had up to 3 kids because of the situation in the marriage, but there are more stories on that but i thank God for giving them to me.  My problem is that my husband has been having series of extra marital affairs since we got married, …

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MIND BLOWING SEX FACTS

 Sex Facts That Will Blow Your Mind Did you know that the clitoris is the only bodily organ that exists solely for sexual pleasure? And blue balls isn’t just a term made up by horny (and disgruntled) teenage boys? It’s actually a real problem!   Fact: The world’s largest recorded penis belongs to 41-year-old New Yorker Jonah Falcon, whose appendage measures 9.5 inches flaccid and 13.5 inches erect.   Fact: The person on top is …

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KISSING 101

  As simple as it sounds, kissing can make or mar your marriage. Most of the big issues couples are struggling with in their marriages started with just a little act of ignorance. When a professional kisser or someone who is good in the act of kissing get married to someone who is an amateur or clueless in the act, you should expect a marriage full of nagging and turbulence, how manage, you said? Let …

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HOW TO CARESS

The power of touch in establishing and maintaining intimacy between two people cannot be overemphasized. caressing is a very good way to get connected emotionally, though physically, it connects souls together. The feelings of being wanted and important at the same time are conveyed through caressing. Apart from the fact that its a good way to prepare the mind for the act of lovemaking, it also promotes bonding. Especially for the women, caressing can serve …

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