MYTHS ABOUT SEX
There are so many lies that we have been told over the years about sex, things that are not true that we have accepted believing them to the extent that they are affecting the way we see sex. Especially in an environment where cultural and religious conditioning is deep. Here are a few myths about sex:
1. Myth: Everyone is supposed to have great sex all the time.
Reality: There is no one-size-fits-all definition of great sex. People have different preferences, desires, and levels of satisfaction, and there can be many factors that affect sexual experiences, including stress, fatigue, and relationship issues.
2. Myth: Men always want sex more than women.
Reality: Sexual desire is not determined by gender. Both men and women can experience high or low sex drive, and it can vary throughout their lives.
3. Myth: Penetration is the only way to have sex.
Reality: Sex can involve many forms of physical intimacy, including kissing, touching, oral sex, and manual stimulation. Penetration is just one aspect of sexual activity and is not necessary for everyone to enjoy sex.
4. Myth: Condoms reduce sexual pleasure.
Reality: Condoms are essential for protecting against sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies. Modern condoms are designed to increase pleasure and come in a variety of textures and sizes.
5. Myth: Masturbation is unhealthy or immoral.
Reality: Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore one’s own body and experience sexual pleasure. It does not cause any physical or mental health problems, and it is not immoral or sinful.
6. Myth: People can’t get pregnant or catch an STI the first time they have sex.
Reality: It is possible to get pregnant or contract an STI the first time someone has sex. It is essential to use protection every time one engages in sexual activity.
7. Myth: A woman can’t get pregnant during her period.
Reality: While it is less likely, a woman can get pregnant during her period. Sperm can survive for up to five days in the female reproductive system, and if ovulation occurs shortly after a period ends, pregnancy can occur.
8. Myth: Size matters (penis size or breast size)
Reality: The size of body parts does not determine sexual pleasure or prowess. Sexual satisfaction depends more on technique, communication, and mutual attraction.
9. Myth: Women don’t watch porn or enjoy it as much as men
Reality: Many women enjoy and consume pornographic material. Porn preferences can vary widely among individuals of any gender.
10. Myth: You can “lose” your virginity
Reality: Virginity is a social and cultural construct rather than a physical state. Sexual experiences can be diverse and don’t necessarily involve penetration.
11. Myth: Men should always initiate sex
Reality: Sexual initiation can come from either partner, and it’s essential for both to feel empowered to express their desires and boundaries.
12. Myth: Sex should always be spontaneous and natural
Reality: Planning and discussing sexual activities can enhance communication and anticipation, leading to more enjoyable experiences.
13. Myth: People in long-term relationships or marriages have less sex
Reality: Sexual frequency can vary greatly among couples, and maintaining intimacy often involves communication, effort, and adapting to life changes.
14. Myth: All orgasms are the same
Reality: Orgasms can vary in intensity, duration, and sensation from person to person and can be achieved through various types of stimulation.
15. Myth: Sexual desire naturally declines with age
Reality: While hormonal changes can affect sexual desire, many older adults continue to have active and fulfilling sex lives.
It’s important to question and debunk myths about sex to promote understanding, healthy communication, and positive sexual experiences and educate ourselves to dispel these myths to have a healthy and fulfilling sex life. Have issues in your sex life and will need to speak to our sex therapist? CONTACT US
What do you think about these myths? are there any ones that I did not mention? you can add in the comment session below.
