HOW TO CARESS
The power of touch in establishing and maintaining intimacy between two people cannot be overemphasized. caressing is a very good way to get connected emotionally, though physically, it connects souls together. The feelings of being wanted and important at the same time are conveyed through caressing. Apart from the fact that its a good way to prepare the mind for the act of lovemaking, it also promotes bonding.
Especially for the women, caressing can serve as a mean of reassuring her of how much you love and care, it can also prepare her mind towards a romantic evening of lovemaking with her husband.
Sex is great but its important to know and understand that most people not all won’t ever reach the sex portion if it weren’t for the sensual caresses that led to that point.
When in a relationship where both people are emotionally and physically attracted to each other, it is important to show affection. There are several ways to do this, but caressing may be the most effective. To caress someone is to show them how you care for them, how special they are, and a simple way of communicating love or strong liking. How to caress is very important, and your significant other will appreciate it if done properly.
In our rush to reach our goals, we often times forget how we got there. Later in the relationship, those little things get completely forgotten because the goal has already been reached.
So if you want to bring back the spark back in your relationship and marriage, bring back the sensual caresses. The soft touch at the nape of the neck. The slight caress with your fingers across a man’s wrist. A man moving his fingers ever so gently up a woman’s leg. The soft touch on a man’s check right before a kiss. The light touch on a woman’s lower back arch as you hold a door open for her. Moving a wisp of hair away from someone’s forehead while looking passionately into their eyes.
Without these sensual caresses, the act of love making just becomes boring and inconsequential. We must treat our partners similar to the way we treat a car. You would never drive your car without warming it up or making sure it has its proper oil change. Otherwise the car wouldn’t act as good as you would want it. In some cases, the car would actually conk out on you in the middle of the road. Well your partner if not handled in the right way, can also conk out.
Sensual caresses will get you to where you want to go!
1. Caressing does not just mean physical contact. In fact, a very seductive form of caressing can be done with the eyes. Taking a long and deep look into your partner’s eyes will make them feel special, and will most likely lead to them wanting to be caressed by you… or they may want to caress you.
2. An easy way to begin caressing someone is through a hug. Rub their back affectionately, and slowly make your way to their shoulders. There, use your fingers to gently run across their skin, then up and down their arms.
3. Look into their eyes (do not glance away), and cup their face with one of your hands.
4. Use your thumbs to caress their cheeks. Next, use your index finger to softly touch their lips. From here, you can feel other parts of their face, and use both hands if they seem to enjoy that.
5. Another way to caress your partner has to do with just hands. You can glide your fingers across their palms and through their fingers, and can also do this as though it was tickling. The great thing about this is that it can be done in public. No, it is not the disgusting thing people call “hand sex”, it is simply caressing your partner’s hands.
6. You can also hold him/her from the back when he/she is not expecting it, gently rubbing your front against your partners back while holding or rubbing their arms is a very good way of caressing.
7. Leg touch is another way of caressing. Especially when you are among other people sitting around a table, maybe during family dinner or eat out time with friends, you both can gently pull your shoes and touch each others legs/foot without others noticing.
