HELP! MY HUSBAND IS A SEX ADDICT!
Dr. Tolu, please help me, my husband is a sex addict,before we got married, we use to make love like nine times in a day, yes nine times, now we are married with two kids and he still want it like that,sometimes he wouldn’t even mind if the kids are around, it has become a big issue that I have to open up to his family who came to settle the issue, but to my surprise he was begging them that they should please make it four times per day. I wasn’t complaining b4, but I though he will outgrow it when he start having responsibilities but I’m surprised that he didn’t change, nothing matters to him except sex,I’m unhappy and sick now, what do I do?
This is not spiritual as some people will paint it to be. That’s one of the issue we have in this part of the world. We spiritualize everything which is not meant to be. Hello Madam, u brought this problem upon yourself, u knew him before getting married to him that he has high libido for sex yet u went ahead when u know u both aren’t sexually compartible thinking he is going to change. It is obvious he has high drive for sex (high libido) and u aren’t (low libido), nothing will make him stop this not even prayer becos this is the type of person he has always been and will continue to be. How come he can have sex with u 9times a day ? Plz hope he is not always on sexual enhancement drugs as well ? is he an idle man who doesn’t work at all becos when a man is stressed out at work most atimes he hardly think about sex and when he does, one or two times is okay for him once in a while and not everyday. This is what u shuld do, u both need to talk politely about dis, don’t do dis angrily so dat he doesn’t feel u are commanding him, express ur worries to him. Stop reporting him to his or ur family members about dis becos u will be making d issue worst. I hope things change for the better anytime soon for u.
Do you have any advice for this lady? Drop your comments here.
She should please be prayerful, dig deep into his past and find out if something has ever go to wrong ( it might be curse, evil pronuncement etc ). Likewise, medical attention should be taken into consideration it might be hormonal imbalance. But please look at it the more from spiritual poin of view, the spiritual rule the physical. All the best.
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Thank you Dammy.