I’M NOT ENJOYING MY MARRIAGE, WHAT DO I DO?
I got married 15years ago,ever since i have not enjoyed marriage for one month except during Ramadan. I’m blessed with 3 kids in this marriage though i wouldn’t have had up to 3 kids because of the situation in the marriage, but there are more stories on that but i thank God for giving them to me. My problem is that my husband has been having series of extra marital affairs since we got married, we have talked, quarreled and do all sort of things over this but he has refused to change , now he doesn’t sleep at home, he does one day at home and one day outside, i asked if he has taken another wife but he wouldn’t answer, please Tolu, im so devastated now and this issue is affecting my health,help ask your fans what do i do?
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My dear, nothing is so frustrating than living with a cheating partner. On the otherhand, I don’t think ur husband started cheating on u after marriage, I feel he has always been like dis b4 u married him and u saw the redflag yet u failed to yield to it or was it an arranged marriage and u guyz never dated ? Well there is not point spilling the beans. Is ur husband accountable to anybody ? Is there sm1 u feel u can talk to about dis dat he respects so much ? What are his parents saying about this issue on ground ? From their response u know what to do. Plzzzzzz my dear, ur health and ur life shuld be of utmost important here so u can take care of ur children. Nobody deserve witholding ur happiness, do the best u can to better ur life in all ramification