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HOW GENDER IDENTITY AFFECTS LOVE LANGUAGES

Introduction A recent research shows that there are about a hundred gender identities in the world, but this article is concerned with straigh people who are in heterosexual relationships. Recent discovery in my practice as a sex therapist and couples counselor have shown alot of struggles amongs couples in sexless marriages, the truth is that we do not need long sessions to find out why this issue is so common in Africa, this is because …

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LOSS OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION IN MARRIAGE

I want to help you fix some of the sexual issues you might be facing in your marriage. Cheating has become the order of the day and you will ask yourself why this is happening, amazingly, women are beating the men to it in today’s world. Read this carefully “We made love virtually everywhere when we first got married; in the car, couch, at the beach, in the bathroom, in fact, we had an unforgettable …

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SEXUAL TURN OFF FOR MEN

INTRODUCTION It is obvious from previous episodes of  my show that a lot of couples are battling with sexual issues in their marriages. Usually, the general belief is that, the men are the one that is always enjoying sex, why the women are the ones at the loosing end, but my experience on this show these few days has proved otherwise. Even though its a common saying that men love sex and and most time …

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DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF WIVES

Whatever i write here is not to judge or disrespect anyone as no one is perfect, In fact, we might notice that one way or the other, everyone of us has one or more of the traits described on some of the categories listed here. Look at this topic from the lighter side of life and let roll. The truth is that people are different, and understanding our personalities and that of others will help …

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SEXUAL TURN-OFF FOR WOMEN

It is obvious from previous episodes of this show that so many couples are battling with sexual issues in their marriages. Usually, the general belief is that, the men are the one that is always enjoying sex, why the women are the ones at the loosing end, but my experience on this show these few days has proved otherwise. Someone even called in that he usually force his wife whenever they want to make love, …

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MASTURBATION UNVEILED

Someone wrote this on Goodtherapy.com: Hi. I’m not sure how to say this so I’ll just say it. I masturbate at least twice a day. Whenever I finish, I feel a profound sense of shame about it and I feel terrible for like an hour. Sometimes the shame even ruins my day. Everything I’ve read says masturbation is normal for guys, yet I can’t get past these feelings of shame and self-hatred. I feel like …

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PAINS DURING SEX

My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimacyclinic.org (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …

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HOW TO STOP CHEATING

Are you cheating on your partner and want to stop it? Read on to find how you can stop cheating and be loyal. Cheating used to be a man thing, but these days, more and more women are getting involved in this act. Eve though there are factors that can trigger cheating, no reason or excuse is good for cheating, and no one should accept responsibility for a cheating spouse, he/she cheated because he/she wanted …

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SIMPLE PRACTICAL GUIDE TO GET OUT OF AN ADDICTIVE AFFAIR

  When an affair become addictive, it becomes a threat to the partner who has a committed marriage/relationship. When it gets to this level, the person who is having an affair might throw all cautions into the air and forget the consequences and impact of his action on his life, marriage , future and children. When it gets to this level, serious practical actions need to be taken. An affair is a very powerful addiction. …

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