In many cultures, especially ours, couples spend millions on weddings, lavish decorations, aso-ebi, and owanbe celebrations, but invest little or nothing in preparing for the life after the party.
At The Intimacy Clinic, we help you prioritize the foundation, not just the fanfare. Our Premarital Counseling is not the same old checklist. It’s a deeply engaging, practical, and transformative experience where you build emotional intelligence, sexual compatibility, conflict resolution skills, and realistic expectations before you say, “I do.”
We help you focus on the marriage, not just the music.
Owanbe will finish. The lights will go off. But what happens when you and your partner are left alone with:
• Unspoken family pressure?
• Financial shocks?
• Sexual dissatisfaction?
• Emotional distance?
• Unexpected life changes?
It’s better to invest in tools than in table settings. It’s wiser to prepare for forever than for one Saturday.
• Clarity about each other’s emotional patterns
• Tools for handling conflict without breaking trust
• Sexual compatibility and practical expectations
• Shared vision and realistic planning
• Strengthened emotional connection
• Confidence to build a marriage, not just a wedding
“It’s easy to fall in love. It’s harder to stay in love. Premarital counseling is the difference
between excitement and endurance.”
“We were planning a 10-million-naira wedding but hadn’t prepared for a 10-year marriage. This counseling saved us from mistakes we didn’t know we were making.”
– B. & S., Lagos
“The group sessions were so real! Hearing other couples share made us confront things we didn’t even know we were hiding.”
– K. & T., Abuja
• Intimate, confidential sessions tailored to your relationship
• Emotional, sexual, and financial preparedness
• Real conversations beyond surface-level compatibility
• Healing of past relationship wounds and family trauma
• Setting realistic expectations for sex, in-laws, parenting, and money
• Dynamic group sessions with other couples preparing for marriage
• Real-life scenarios, interactive activities, and peer learning
• Safe, respectful, and engaging conversations led by Dr. Tolu
• Strong community feel without compromising individual privacy
• Emotional intelligence and conflict resolution
• Sexual intimacy and sexual expectations
• Communication styles and cultural differences
• Financial roles and money values
• Family, in-laws, and social pressure navigation
• Emotional baggage and unresolved wounds
• Children, parenting, and future planning
The world is a global village and distance is no longer a barrier to getting the needed help.
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