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DIFFERENT SEX STYLES

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When you hear sex styles, what comes into people’s minds is sex positions, but these two even though used interchangeably are not the same. Styles represent the kind of sex that you have while sex positions are the different types of how you have sex. Different factors influence the kind of sex an individual likes and these factors could include childhood conditioning, parenting, culture, belief, gender roles, social expectations, environmental factors, religion, upbringing, individual desires, …

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HOW GENDER IDENTITY AFFECTS LOVE LANGUAGES

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Introduction A recent research shows that there are about a hundred gender identities in the world, but this article is concerned with straigh people who are in heterosexual relationships. Recent discovery in my practice as a sex therapist and couples counselor have shown alot of struggles amongs couples in sexless marriages, the truth is that we do not need long sessions to find out why this issue is so common in Africa, this is because …

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VALENTINE DEPRESSION, SHOULD YOU BE TALKING TO A THERAPIST?

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Even though valentine’s season is expected to be the season of love when everyone is happy and excited expressing their undying affection to the ones they love, surprisingly, some people might be going through what seems to be one of the worst seasons of their lives during valentine. As much as no one is expected to cut short their happiness because of others, when it comes to valentine, the level of insensitivity to other people’s …

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HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF

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People makes resolutions at the beginning of every new year; Plans on dos and don’ts, dreams and aspirations, targets and goals etc. Infact goal setting is usually a popular phrase at the beginning of the year. All these are good but the truth is that you cannot give what you do not have. You are the carrier of your dreams, the engine house that drives your ambition and the container that carries your aspiration, if …

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WHAT HAS AGE GOT TO DO WITH THIS?

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Age is one of the factors that need to be considered when choosing a life partner especially in this part of the world, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the success of such a relationship depends on the age factor. If we say age is just a number, we won’t be far from the truth, and if we also say it matters, it’s not false as well. Research shows that women who marrieds men who …

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HOW TO KNOW IF SOMEONE IS INTO YOU

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People tend to walk into my office asking questions like ‘Dr. Tolu how do I know if my partner loves me?’ or perhaps you are one that likes to keep your money away from your partner especially from men to women saying you will like to test her and be sure she doesn’t love you because of money. All these and many more do not guarantee someone’s love for you. The first thing I tell …

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SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION

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SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION: It is the consistent, recurring difficulty experienced by an individual during any phase of the sexual cycle that prevents the individual or couple from experiencing satisfaction from the sexual activity. In other words, when anything hinders an individual from experiencing full sexual satisfaction, is a form of sexual dysfunction. A condition is said to be a dysfunction when it has been going on consistently for six months and also affects one’s functionality, productivity, …

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I CHOOSE TO WRITE ABOUT VEE

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#BBNAIJA is a very psychological show, I watch mostly to study the power play and interrelationship dynamics (Laycon changed that this year, though). Being a housemate requires a high level of emotional intelligence and effective cognitive skills. Some are lucky to be equipped with these skills during childhood. Let me explain… How do you explain telling a child to eat the food presented to her at a function, then beat her up while getting home …

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“I-DO-DO”

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  24 HOURS WITH THE FIXER, A VALENTINE COUPLES GETAWAY PACKAGE As the foremost clinical counseling and sex therapy clinic in Nigeria, every year, the Intimacy clinic usually put together a specialized unforgettable valentine package for couples. This is a therapeutic rejuvenating event for those who want to love and be loved in return, amazing experiences that will help you rekindle the flames of love. Intimacy Clinic is specially inviting you and your partner to …

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