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POSSIBLE REASONS YOU COULD BE STRUGGLING WITH MONOGAMY

It is always said that men are polygamous in nature, a myth that most people have come to believe and adapted as their realities. According to research, there are more than fifty (50) different types of non-monogamous relationships being practiced, a situation where people could choose to be in a relationship with more than one partner. Such as being in a financial relationship with one partner, in an emotional relationship with another, and a sexual …

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50 FUN FACTS ABOUT KISSING

Kissing can make or mar your relationship/marriage Most of the big issues couples are struggling with in their marriages started with just a little act of ignorance. marriage can be full of nagging and turbulence because a poor kisser marries a good kisser-  Kissing is not the only step during the act of lovemaking Women does not speedily build up romantic emotions till it reaches the peak call orgasm breach of love making process can …

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FIVE WAYS TO STOP FIGHTING ABOUT SEX

Sex is a very crucial aspect of marriage that cannot be over emphasized. Even though sex is not all that matters in marriage, it actually matters greatly. Research shows that about 75-85% of marital issue is sex related! that is why you will see a woman whose the husband can buy her the world still cheating on him. It’s a pity it’s a topic we find difficult to discuss in our society. Most time couples …

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THE ORDER OF LOVEMAKING

A lot of couples are in a sexually frustrating marriage because they put the wrong thing first. There are orders in which things must be done when it comes to the act of love making. Follow these five orders of lovemaking and find out why your sex life is becoming frustrating. Attraction: A lot of people will never be able to enjoy the act of love making if they are not attracted to their partner. …

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SEXUAL TURN OFF FOR MEN

INTRODUCTION It is obvious from previous episodes of  my show that a lot of couples are battling with sexual issues in their marriages. Usually, the general belief is that, the men are the one that is always enjoying sex, why the women are the ones at the loosing end, but my experience on this show these few days has proved otherwise. Even though its a common saying that men love sex and and most time …

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DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF WIVES

Whatever i write here is not to judge or disrespect anyone as no one is perfect, In fact, we might notice that one way or the other, everyone of us has one or more of the traits described on some of the categories listed here. Look at this topic from the lighter side of life and let roll. The truth is that people are different, and understanding our personalities and that of others will help …

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SEXUAL TURN-OFF FOR WOMEN

It is obvious from previous episodes of this show that so many couples are battling with sexual issues in their marriages. Usually, the general belief is that, the men are the one that is always enjoying sex, why the women are the ones at the loosing end, but my experience on this show these few days has proved otherwise. Someone even called in that he usually force his wife whenever they want to make love, …

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MASTURBATION UNVEILED

Someone wrote this on Goodtherapy.com: Hi. I’m not sure how to say this so I’ll just say it. I masturbate at least twice a day. Whenever I finish, I feel a profound sense of shame about it and I feel terrible for like an hour. Sometimes the shame even ruins my day. Everything I’ve read says masturbation is normal for guys, yet I can’t get past these feelings of shame and self-hatred. I feel like …

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ATTRIBUTES OF FRIENDSHIP

I will like to talk about 5 attributes your friendship or relationships must have. We all know that when two people are not sincere with themselves, the quality of friendship decreases frantically. Here are my top 5: 1. Sincerity Vs Insincerity The moment you are lying often about minor daily activities, your friend may become uncomfortable with you. Lying has become very common with people and this can be a turn off if you are not watchful. 2. Pretense vs Realness For some people, living …

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THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA

THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA I recently counseled a young couple, they were separated and decided to come for counseling after the guy attempted suicide. The wife left with their two kids and the man became lonely and miserable. It took the intervention of neighbors and friends to rescue him, this is not moonlight story but reality. I’m sure the typical African man reading this will say, “ Is he alright ‘women …

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